who initiates first...you or your partner??

Thread is to discuss who initiates sex after going to bed and how? :bobby:


In my case its always me starting it after informing directly or I give a hint through foreplay..

 

70% me, 30% my partner. I realize that my sex drive is definitely higher than average tho. Lucky for me, I have a partner that never says no. As far as how... Its usually different... Not every time, but I like to switch it up.

 

I've always (99% of the time) had to be the initiator & I usually place my hand over her bed clothes on her breast or genital area when I want my wife to know I'm wanting to have sex after we get into bed.
Sometimes I have managed to get her to have sex during the daytime but only if she seems to in the mood for it. I have wished many times she'd initiate instead occasionally & have suggested it to her to.

 

Sometimes me sometimes her