I came across this Instagram post from Paulina Porizkova, a very well noted super model. It was an eye opener in her regard to why she has sex. So much so that I totally relate to what she posted. You can read her post here - Login • Instagram What she said was she never had sex for a man or meaning to please him. She separated sex from love asking "Can you have sex without love?" Then she went on to say that it is not a problem for men and most women need to be connected before they can. Paulina made a good point that there is more resultant responsibility for a woman than there is for a man. But she also pointed out that women can enjoy sex more than men. I felt she made a lot sense about having sex and who one does it for. I can relate as I have sex for me. For my pleasure. If I bring my partner to orgasm I do it for me and my ego and own feelings. It's not that I don't want my partner to enjoy our time together but the time is really about what I get out of the encounter. I have sex for the feelings I get from having sex. What about you?
Good topic, and interesting. Like yourself, I would say for sure the best sex for me is when it is all about me. When basically I am using her for my own pleasure. May sound bad, but she also has the best sex for her when she does the same. Honestly - how many people's desires/specific positioning etc. match up perfectly? No ones. That is not to say that I/we don't also enjoy intimate sex. When it is more about the mutual/emotional. That is good stuff too. And important for the relationship. But pure sex... being selfish about it is by far better than worrying about the other. Better to "trade off", sometimes for you, sometimes for her.
Yes interesting topic. When my body is having sex it is all 100% mechanical. My body enjoys it and it enjoys making other people feel good. If I didn't understand myself this way then I would probably fall in love and totally fuck up my life with ping pong emotions. Emotion is from Latin "to disturb."
How can I phrase this? I have sex for her and by having it for her, it’s for me too. I never have orgasm when my girlfriend fucks me - I am so completely focused on her pleasure that I can’t think about my own. Nor do I want to - I want to make her cum. That’s all I care about. When I give her my hole to use and she cums I feel so complete and so happy. Knowing her sperm is inside me, I feel that she has given me a wonderful gift. Afterwards I always cuddle with her and tell her how much I love her. That is really the only time in our relationship when I feel like I am the woman and she is the man. Oddly enough we have both confessed to each other that we fantasize she is making me pregnant. Who wouldn’t want her to make you pregnant?
You remind me of a song by "Emerson, Lake & Palmer. "Lucky Man" It goes like this: He had white horses And ladies by the score All dressed in satin And waiting by the door Ooh, what a lucky man he was Ooh, what a lucky man he was...... You are a lucky man my man. Living the dream of my body.
A lady with a dick like she is IS the same as ladies by the score. Same thing in the pleasure department.
