who comes first?

But is sex ever really bad from a male perspective?

 

Sex is never bad. In fact, I'm hoping to see how good it can be in another hour or so. Wish me luck....

 

more foreplay will make the woman to climax better and enjoy the most.

 

I make sure my wife climaxes several times (usually 5 to 7 times) before I do. I love to do a combination of oral, manual, and vibrator stimulation on her for between an hour and 2 hours. During that 2 hour time frame, she usually likes to 69 for a bit, too. Having me in her mouth makes her even hotter. She told me that. Why rush a good thing??

Now - if we could only do these things more often!!!

 

Always my wife. Most times twice or more before I cum.

other than a few times when I was really young even in flings or one night stands I always did everything to make her cum.

 

She usually cums first. I either lick her pussy or finger her until she orgasms. She usually goes for a second one, then starts sucking my cock after that.

 

Can't disagree with anything you say- although I've had my share of experiences where a guy simply didn't care that he came to soon for my preferences. I'd simply add there is no entirely satisfactory substitute for a fully engaged male organ vigorously pursuing its goal in the veejay!

 

As was said upthread, ladies before gentlemen always. I have pretty good control so in the course of making sure she orgasms first, I will bring myself to the brink before pulling out and going oral. Once in awhile, I can make my longtime partner cum through just penetration but that’s more the exception than the rule. Also, once in awhile, I’ll call it good after she’s finished. Sometimes, it’s nice to go to sleep while still aroused by the experience.

 

Yes, I always allow my wife to orgasm first while I hold mine until I experience her orgasmic contractions. As you said sometimes I also call it off my orgasm and go to sleep wanting more next day. Very true personal experinces.

 

Yep, happy wife, happy life!

99.9% of the time is her first...and second....and third....and......

Well you all get the picture. Lol

 

What is your secret of controlling your orgasm until your partner?

 

I prefer to cum first, but that rarely happens. And when he cums first, what is left for me is usually not very good.

 

Cheer up Angela you must get some pleasure out of it

 

Who comes first? Does it matter? I remember when my spouse and I were sexually active. There were times I did my best to bring her off before myself. She began to fake it and then I climbed on board and finished. Once she told me she didn't always or even want to come during sex it took a lot of pressure off me and our sex life improved. So did our communication during sex. It became so much easier and fun knowing how we wanted the fucking to go. Often I would perform cunnilingus, climb on for intercourse, dump my load, and then attack her clitoris to bring her off. The sweet taste of her sperm filled vagina and then her ejaculate when she came was awesome. So much so I would climb aboard again sometimes. With my other partners I ask if she wants to cum as we are involved. I've had a few tell me to just fuck her. What I've found is they enjoy the special closeness sex provides and the wonderful feelings involved in holding me during sex, or more importantly intercourse. For many women orgasm is not always a requirement for having a satisfying sexual encounter. In fact sometimes I don't ejaculate but still love having sex with a woman.

 

Yes, I guess my expectations are too high.

 

Angela, Angela, Angela.....

 

Yes, you have an opinion on the subject?

 

As always....I think it's ok for you to have high expectations. Especially from the guy that you've just given one of your signature bj's to.

 

Thanks. I always value your opinion!

 

The woman always cums first! Her orgasm is what gets me off!