. . . a man who will pay a girl for sex or a woman who will accept money for sex? I know a guy who says it's cheaper to just pay a girl for sex than to try and woo her, take her out a few times only with the hopes of possibly getting some. He has a friend girl that he's knows a number of years and he'll routinely hit her up and slip her some cash for a quick roll in the hay. They've never dated and she actually had a boyfriend. Every few weeks when he needs some he'll hit her up and make plans to meet in a few days for sex. No, he's not slipping her hundreds of dollars like she's a high class hooker or escort. I think he said the most he's paid her was like $60. She uses it as pocket change. He said that she told him he licks pussy better than her man so that's why she does it. Most of the time he'll swing by her place and she'll meet him outside and they'll drive to the back parking lot to a dark corner and hook up. Her man is normally in the house with the kids. She'll tell him she's running to a friend's apartment for a second. Normally done in about 20 or 30 minutes and he's on his way. Which one would you think is worst. My friend for paying for sex or the girl for taking money for sex, even though she has a live in boyfriend at home? He said a number of girls he's dated have expected him to wine and dine them for a while before they decide to give up anything. He said he's sometime spent several hundred on dates then the girl ghosted him or told him she wasn't really interested. Who's worst here?
I don’t think there is anything wrong with either of them. The guy is getting sex without a relationship and she is getting oral sex which her idiot boyfriend is not giving her.
What's worse is the girl in the story is lying to the father of her children while she goes to fuck the friend. The money exchanged isn't an issue. I agree with the friend who is paying a girl to have sex with him. A man wants some pussy, a woman has one. She's willing to let him fuck her NSA. Leave a little compensation for her time plus she leaves after and won't bother him. I got no problem with that. Lying to your partner about what you are doing? That's an issue.
That opens up an interesting conversation. Are there any women who have been on the other side of this scenario? Women: Have you ever paid for sex or worked out some arrangement with a guy so that when you need it you can call on him? Could be that you don't have a boyfriend at the moment or even want one but you still need and crave sex. You have a cute neighbor whom you are friendly with and strike up a conversation. Or you have just a good guy friend who you can call on when you need servicing. Or you need something done around your place or maybe some work done on your car and you use sex as compensation.
IMO there is nothing wrong with paying for or being paid for sex. BUT, she is in a family way and she is cheating on her entire family and exposing her man to STD's. That is so very very wrong.
I chatted with a married woman years ago, talking about getting together for sex at their house, husband supporting and watching or joining. I was hooked on the idea the idea until she said she only wanted oral, I wanted to do more. And she was charging a certain amount. That took the fun out of it. Besides, I was broke.
Correction to my last, she only wanted anal I know it’s said to be highly pleasurable but the idea turned me off at the time.
