Where to find a good partner to lose my virginity?

I'm a 20yrs old woman and I want to start having sex. I feel complicated as I don't exactly wish to get into a relationship at the moment, I've considered dating apps however I'm aware of the dangers and don't want my first time to be in an unsafe environment :/ I don't really know how to find a partner who understands I'm not looking for a boyfriend and is willing to keep it casual but won't be an asshole who only cares about his own pleasure I guess lol.
I recently bought a vibrator to try and explore my body better by myself but I could barely fit a few cm that's a different problem lol, I'm just an inexperienced virgin who wants to explore her sexuality in a safe and fulfilling way, if anyone has got any advice or has been in my situation I'm all ears hehe

 

Maybe find someone you feel you can trust and let him know you only look to lose your V
Someone who will be there not only for himself
I suggest an older guy

 

Welcome pastelpink to HF! You’re making a wise step to seek advice, taking it slow and self discovery. Safety is key! Hoping the best for you.

Kind Regards,
6sailor9

 

Have patience pastelpink.

That’s all I can add to the posts above. Hope all goes well for you.

 

Just keep looking, you’ll find someone. I remember how it was, being that young and wanting to have sex so bad, but being unattached didn’t help. I never had a FWB either, I just didn’t know anyone for that task.

However, I will also recommend that you find someone a little older for helping you lose your virginity. Maybe someone in their 30s or 40s who is experienced and can make you comfortable during the process. You’ll have a much better experience that way than with some young kid your age who hasn’t had much or any sex and doesn’t know what they’re doing.

All the best to you and keep us posted on how things go.

 

Yeah take your time and be safe make sure you can trust him and he want do anything you don’t want him to do to you.

 

The OP hasn't been back since posting. I hope she got fucked the way she wanted. A perfect scenario for ones first time is with an older partner. One who has been with a few, is clean, can't get or make one pregnant, and has patience.

 

OP has good name for porn. Just break into porn. Think of what some would pay.

 

I’m 44 and still waiting………
Introvert. Low self esteem. Lack of confidence.
Answers to the inevitable question as to why.

 

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