Where is my so called "Mojo"? [Explicit Context]

Hello members of this community, I have been suffering from this "problem" for a little while and I just really need some advice. You see, I fear that something is wrong with me. Talking about sex and erections here. I can easily gain an erection when masturbating alone and fantasizing about certain women in my life. But when it actually comes down to the raw physical side of things. Climbing into bed with a woman and so on. My penis just simply refuses. I stay horny and hard all the way through foreplay, ready to just take sexual action and then when it comes down to it. I have lost my erection and it is not easy to get it back up at all... I am just confused more than anything. I can't exactly have erectile dysfunction due to the fact that i wake up most mornings with an erection and i can masturbate no problem, also i am getting random erections throughout the day. Is something wrong with my mentality. And if so. Can anybody please give me some advice on how i can make it work in the bedroom as well as when i am on my own. I am extremely desperate for any kind of assistance.

Many thanks in advance - Worried and Concerned :S

 

Sexuality is part physical and part mental. If you are now stressing about losing an erection, it is a self-fulfilling prophesy because you are thinking about that instead of enjoying the moment with someone else. I don't know how you would break a cycle like that or any other cycle that distract you from the moment and would worry you. Try forgetting about you and focus on your partner and giving her pleasure in foreplay and maybe you will get carried away in the moment. If nothing else works I would see a counselling to get some advice on what to do. Good luck

 

Try listening to music while having sex. That's how I got over the nervousness. I ujst made sure not to think about anything and just listen to the music and experience the sensation and it all worked out. Once you're in in feels too good and you stay hard. Unless there is a physical problem -- but it sounds like you just have a mental one...