Where Has All The Love Gone?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by BlissRainbow, Mar 8, 2013.

  1. BlissRainbow

    BlissRainbow Member

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    GBBlondie, when your posts cease to be constructive and only serve to insult you are being a troll therefore I have reported your comment.~
     
  2. GBBlondie

    GBBlondie Banned

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    ZOMG, I hope I don't get bannededed. :willy_nilly:
     
  3. BlissRainbow

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    I'm sorry, GBBlondie but your conintuing attempts to troll have pushed me to add you to my ignore list, a list that didn't exist on these forums for me until now.~

    Goodbye, and I wish you Peace and Love!~ ^_^

    Love, Bliss!~
     
  4. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    No personal attacks. Talk about the issues, don't just insult one another!
     
  5. BlissRainbow

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    Thank you, drumm.~ Did anyone read my previous post before all this stuff happened?~

    I think loving someone without being with them forever would be a lot easier if everyone did that.~ That way you could love someone everyday and they would love you back, there would be no innate "demand" to stay with them forever, you could do that if you wanted to, but that would be something you would talk with them about.
     
  6. drumminmama

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    Romantically, I think monogamy and polyamory are akin to gender preference, something innate to the individual.
    I think people should not assume the other person is monogamous in outlook but rather have a discussion about it.
    Sure, poly is a small segment, but put two people with vastly differing views of what a relationship means in emotional and sexual fidelity terms together and someone will get hurt.
     
  7. BlissRainbow

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    Well said, thank you for that.~

    Discussion is helpful.~
     
  8. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    Although the physical act is the same, there is a definite difference between Making Love & simply Having Sex. Making Love is usually the unplanned result of one thing leading to another, whereas simply Having Sex will have usually involved making a decision in advance.
     
  9. calgirl

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    I admire those that learn to have good sex, and then apply it to making love. I really have not experienced "love sex". Orgasmic sex is not contingent on emotion.
     
  10. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    I agree and disagree. I think some people can separate the two, and others cannot.
     
  11. GBBlondie

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    I agree with your agreement and disagreement.
     
  12. BlissRainbow

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    Perhaps the question is not whether we CAN separate the two emotion and sex, but whether we SHOULD?~
     
  13. GBBlondie

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    The answer to that question lies within the individual. You don't get to make decisions about that for anyone other than yourself.
     
  14. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    we shouldn't if we don't want and we should if we do
     
  15. BlissRainbow

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    True, it's all about love and what you choose to do with it.~

    I guess the reason people hold back when it comes to loving someone and the reason they are afraid to love everyone is because they want to feel love all the time so they look for someone who wants to share their life with them and they don't want to get hurt.~
     
  16. BlissRainbow

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    But I for one am willing to love you all, even if we disagree upon things and even if you call yourself my enemy I will and am sending my love to all of you!~

    And if I should meet you and we get along, I am willing and open to loving you as my lover in every way we both wish!~ ^_^
     
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