I'm trading out my FWB for someone of a higher caliber. He's just too disorganized. I might not trade out though, because he's a sweet guy. So I might just add one more. So where can I meet them. Craigslist is dicey. Dating sites tend to be fickle. In public I attract losers and psychos.
We find all our friends on Adult Friend Finder. Pay for the year or you'll not be able to message enough people or see profiles well. We have met at least 100 guys and couples from there but only got naked with 20. Craigslist is very shady. They don't seem to be interested long. The guys in the chat rooms, even on Adult Friend Finder only seem to be interested in chatting and never meeting. I'd not bother with chat rooms. Past that, dress like a little naughty wife, go to the bar and let some guy pick you up and bring him back to the table to meet your husband after you have been talking dirty to him letting him know your DTF.
Update: I have met two quality FWBs. One is an industrial engineer turned poker player living in Vegas. Another is a professor living in NYC. I talk to the first one on the phone all the time and email him. He's smitten. He wants me to move to Vegas. We're gonna meet up either here or Dallas in May. He has a great voice and is pretty good looking. He's black and my preference is more for white or Latino. He's also 30 which very young (I'm 32). I know I know but I prefer significantly older. Plus apparently his dick is so very big his bulge is noticeable and he has to fend off gay guys. I don't know about that. I've managed to stay tight. That's most of what makes it enjoyable. The second one I met on a dating site. We went on our first date two nights ago. He took me to a bar in an eclectic, arty district downtown. We had three Tequila Sunrises. Conversation was great. Music was fun. Loved the ambiance. He's tall, slim, 40s, and white (Jewish). Well traveled, intelligent, brownish grayish hair, nice suit, nice wheels. Ideal. We went to his hotel which was upscale. We fooled around. I gave him a little head, but not to the point where he came. He fingered me and necked me. He has a nice dick. He really enjoyed the head. He's 420 friendly so maybe next time. Maybe. Not really my thing. So he'll contact me next time he's in town. So that's one FWB in the bag.
