Hello, I'm a 74 y.o. Grandfather newbie. I am married to the most wonderful woman I have ever met (Who (Whom?)) has experienced considerable emotional trauma during the last four years with the slow death of her daughter by way of pancreatic cancer in 2019, that of her mother in 2021, and physical trauma with two complete knee replacements, three back surgeries in the past two years AND the resulting infections of those surgeries, through no fault of her own. She's had it rough and I am a big support for her. All of this trauma has contributed to a dramatic decline in her libido.....to the equivalent of no libido. I dont blame her in the least, no one could, considering what she has experienced in her late 50s and to mid 60s. Saggen
Good morning matey and welcome to HIP from this ancient, decrepit crinkly t'other side of the 'pond' from you.
Sorry to hear your pain, and I do understand that! I hope you can find someone locally to be with, HipForums isn't the best dating site out there, but we do talk about things! Take care, and you get a GOLD STAR for taking care of your wife!