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Rick----just take things SLOW and easy-let things fall into place gradually and naturally; trusting each other and ENJOYING what each has to offer is a key factor here; and I also DO thank you for the kind words----greatly appreciated!

 

Thank you for giving me advice and the motivation to keep looking and I will take it slow and let everything go naturally and let them fall into place you’re a awesome friend and thanks for everything

 

Glad I can be of help to you-albeit only here in this board-----just take it all slow and at a leisurely pace---play your cards right and "the right guy" could be indeed closer than you think!

 

I will friend I will

 

My first time was many years ago when a co-worker and I were at a friend's house for a party. He followed me into the bathroom and asked if he could suck me. With a little encouragement from him, I undid my pants and let them drop to the floor. It was an amazing experience and afterwards I felt very awkward, especially since we worked at the same place. We did not talk about it afterwards at all, but I certainly thought about it a lot. A few months later I went to a bar with a friend who left without me. When I was in the parking lot looking for his car and mumbling to myself, a person approached and offered me a ride home. I did take him up on it and we ended up in a dark parking lot behind an old apartment building. It was there I sucked my first dick and swallowed my first mouthful of cum. We talked some as he drove me home and I let him know how much I enjoyed sucking him. After that experience I wanted to continue because I knew it was right for me

 

Indeed-----that first guy-on-guy encounter can REALLY be an eye-opening experience-----and has a guy thinking "Why the hell did I wait so long?" If the riight signs are being read------and you are needing to bust a good nut------what the hell? Go for it-----and ENJOY!

 

How many times have I heard a guy ask that question after we got done getting each other off? Or asking me what they were afraid of. Or it wasn't as bad - or it was as good or better - than they thought it would be. So many guys who had been denied the pleasure of cumming in a woman's mouth got to cum in mine and, often, in epic fashion. Or they've said that they can't cum being sucked - and then they pop their cork in my mouth and are stunned and surprised because they not only came but did so faster than they could have imagined.

Looking up and seeing that "I don't believe there's a guy sucking my dick!" look on a guy's face - and that moment of eye contact makes him pop his cork. There is nothing more precious than giving a guy his first experience and making it damned good for him...

 

A TONGUE working a COCK is just that------a TONGUE-a tongue-after all-knows no gender-------(!!) I think that it would have to be both the LUST and the primal urge (as well as years of self-denial) that really makes a formerly "all straight" guy REALLY bust a HUGE nut with another guy....who knew?

 

Methinks that lust ain't all that bad of a thing. I've often seen the moment when a guy realizes that it doesn't make a difference who's sucking his dick... as long as his dick is being sucked. Really interesting how they can manage to bust huge nuts in that first moment, too; many have had me wondering if they're going to stop cumming so I can catch my breath.

Yeah... who knew, right?

 

Just like when a guy is pants down across someone's lap getting his butt spanked-----a hairbrush or a paddle feels the SAME to a bare bouncing masculine ass----no matter if it's a MAN or a WOMAN doing the ass-busting!

Same way when a mouth is working overtime on your cock and your balls------a MOUTH is a MOUTH (and that's the all of it!)

 

Think of this------ALL humans are SEXUAL beings------that being said-----sex-REGARDLESS of what redundant labels might say--------simply SEX! Hell-just GET IT ON with WHOEVER you WANT-----and don't give a damn if the person is male or female------go with the moment-----and enjoy the raw unbridled LUST without worrying about a "label" being attached!

 

.................Just imagine a bunch of cigar-puffing beer-guzzling macho buds on poker night-------the loser (in reality-the 'winner") has to blow all his buds------and then going go back home to the wife with a sperm-dripping chute!!!

 

Well, that why you learn how to play poker and not lose any hands...

 

How about the guy who loses ON PURPOSE so he has the excuse he needs to go down on his poker buds?

 

Yeah, that has worked time and time again! But you shouldn't need an excuse to blow all of your poker buddies...

 

Agreed: NO EXCUSE needed to go down on your buds------just 'blow em' 'cause' you want to feel those thick throbbing cocks blasting your tonsils with multiple bursts of hot sperm while those loaded, sweaty, hairy balls smack against your chin-as the musky aroma of man-sex has you all primed to bust a big major-league nut---------------

 

My first bisexual experience was about 10 years ago, I was in my late 20s. I had an interest for a few years leading up to this. I just wanted to try giving a blowjob...
I discovered Craigslist personals and found an older guy looking for some action. I live in a very rural area, where nearly everyone knows everyone. Luckily this guy was close enough but also just far enough away that we probably didn't know each other.

Anyway, we met in his car after work and dark out, it was on a side road with no traffic that time of day. I was nervous af. Got in his car, he already has it out and was hard. I had never even seen another man's hard dick before this. I went for it, took it in my mouth for a few minutes, then he insisted on seeing mine, but I wasn't really ready for that. I Said "thanks but sorry" and I split. On the drive home I swore I'd never do that again.....

It took a while(years), but I have done it since, and have sucked off that guy more than once.

 

You also hear much on "straight" guys who have their first m/m encounter while at college; noawadays-a college guy who is caught having sex with another male in his dorm indeed can fear the worst. I know there is far too much anti-gay (and bisexual) sentiments on too many college campuses these days; while I am sure that some of these college encounters can-indeed-be forged into a very close friendship (which also includes having sex)-----while others can quickly destroy a friendship-----if indeed it really existed in the first place---------------

 

Yes, getting that first dick in college is pretty classic and typical. One might fear the worst, but that fear can be set aside because when you're fucking horny, your balls are aching like crazy, and the only relief at hand is a roommate who wants to suck you off? No time to be afraid and that's why dorm room doors have locks - and I won't tell if you won't, okay? You cannot ever realize that fear if you never have to face it; just because there's always the potential to face that fear is not a guarantee that you will face it. Yes, it has destroyed many a friendship but human, dumb asses we are, always looks at the bad part of shit and not all that keen to accept that many more friendships have not been ruined. The naysayers say that you should never have sex with a friend but, in fact, a "majority of men" have their first M2M experience with a friend.

Getting caught isn't the end of the world, you know. Sure, your social standing might take a hit but why are you in college? To be a social climber or to gain that level of higher education you're definitely going to need if you don't punk out and quit... because you got caught having sex with a dude? Fuck, I got caught by the one person no guy wants catching them dick-deep in a guy's ass: My mother. I lived to tell the tale and my social and family standing were just fine and dandy, thank you very much.

We need to stop with the doom and gloom shit; it manifests fears that are real but like I said - if you never have to face a fear, what the fuck are you afraid of? Just because "Gary" and "Clint" got caught behind the football field bleachers and publicly humiliated does not ever mean that you and whomever you choose to have sex with is going to get caught and similarly humiliated. And if you let this shit stop you from getting that first experience, then the motherfuckers who started all of this shit - and continue to propagate it - are in control of you and making decisions on who you can have sex with. Are you really that naive that you believe that if you hook up with a guy, you're definitely going to get an STD or HIV? Do you? The risk is real but like I tell a lot of guys: That's what they make condoms for. Demand their use and if he says no, then you say no and walk the fuck away.

It's not rocket science, guys.

 

I think always knew I was bi. Even as a kid, I was interested in girls. But I also found a more than passing interest in boys. I didn't recognize it for what it was then. I did like seeing other boys' cocks. And I always thought Dad's porno mags should show guys' penises along with the nude women.
It wasn't until a drunken experience in college, when my roomate and I wound up stroking each other, that the last connections were made in my consciousness. From then on, regardless of my relationship status at the time (predominantly hetro), the bi side of me was always there- wanting attention.