When you first------

Exactly.

 

Think-too-of all the "straight" guys fighting for our country (all our heroes)-----and no gals around-who will let another sexually-frustrated guy "ease the built-up load" in his nuts-----with a good wet sloppy guy-on-guy BJ------also-think of all the guy/guy sex that went on (goes on) when enlisted guys get horny enough (a lot of these guys "bond" for sure)-------and I bet-----a lot of these guys-once their "stint" was done------will totally ignore what they did-and not own up to it------or-perhaps------"whet their appetite" for an "encore?"

 

Think of this-----we are ALL "sexually-oriented" people------it's in our genes beginning with Day One; if it were not for the crap drilled into the skulls of young people at an early age by "straight" society----that the ONLY sex is between a guy and a gal------and-instead-that ALL sex (with consenting adults) is 100% NATURAL-we'd all be better off-for certain--------

 

Of course, I understand what you said and it is the thing that makes that first time so fucking amazing for a guy to have been told all of the bullshit and then find out that, wow, sex with a guy is fucking amazing and I can't wait to do it again! I think the effect is more profound with adult males because they wind up getting disabused of a lot of heteronormative stuff that's in their head. You can be a husband and father and... some guy's horny bottom who loves to suck cock and have it in their ass or being the one to bring the noise to a guy who likes dick in his mouth and/or ass.

It keeps coming back to the same thing: Who the fuck knew that getting some dick could be so fucking good? And why can't I get enough of it? I have always said that it's one thing to know that men do, in fact, have sex with each other; it's something else when it's your turn to find out and... who knew?

 

KDaddy23: Right on! For instance-a BJ is ALWAYS a BJ-regardless whether it be a guy or a gal chowing down on your erect shaft! A TONGUE is a TONGUE-after all! Yours truly has read of guys (after FINALLY fucking a guy ) how ind-blowing FANTASTIC it feels to feel another guy's chute working your shaft as you plow in and out; ditto the guys getting their initial fuck-with a big cock battering their prostate-------courtesy of reading online sex stories-I know a lot of guys shot BIG THICK loads WITHOUT touching their cocks-just getting their once-"straight" prostates plowed by an ass-plowing jizz-spitting dick!

 

"Straight"/bisexual guy getting the first cock up his ass indeed constitutes a "GRAND OPENING" for certain!!

 

I was “talked into” letting a coworker suck my cock. It was a wow moment for sure. In the days after was the enlightenment. Thinking over and over, “a man sucked my dick and swallowed my cum and I loved it”. And during those days, I didn’t get struck by lightning, nobody treated me differently, the world still rotated around the sun, and my then wife didn’t leave me. That was because what I did was between me and the guy that I shared the moment with.

I never felt conflicted and wanted to experience it again. To me it felt real. I learned that day that men suck cock because they want and like to. It gives them satisfaction. Where as women do it, for the most part, as a duty or a means to get to something more. Not truly enjoying the “task”. This led to my curiosity of giving a BJ. A curiosity that was short as I was able to find the willing guy in my coworker that gave me my first. I was hooked.

I had been married for 21 years. The only kid was out of the house and in the military. The wife and I grew apart years before. Stayed together for the kid. It wasn’t long after I started my journey into sex with men that I started hinting to the wife about going our separate ways. Surprised that she welcomed the idea. Quick and painless divorce afforded me the opportunity to freely pursue my new found interest in men. I don’t regret it. I don’t label myself. I simply do what I enjoy in the privacy of my home.

 

You were-indeed-one of the LUCKY guys for sure! Go your OWN way and just enjoy "bonding" all the way!

 

As I think back to my first bisexual encounter, I remember how conflicted I felt. The first thought was how wonderful it felt and then how much I was afraid to have anybody find out about it. I was married and in my 30's and so was my partner who was also a very good friend. We continued to have relations for several months until he and his family moved away. I haven't had a same sex experience since that time, but have always wanted to. I've not spoken to anybody else about my original experience. Now that I'm much older I want to actively pursue finding a partner and acknowledge my bisexuality.

 

Sure hope you soon find a "buddy" to engage in guy/guy fun that is both HOT and FULFILLING-----INTENSE "bonding" action-----on a regular basis!

 

Thanks GrayGuy for your thoughts. Sure hope to have something good to post about in the not too distant future.

 

JDog12: If you are lucky enough to "hook up" with another guy for "play" let us know how it went------sure hope it's soon and that it's a great experience!

 

------and regarding any bisexual guy's FIRST guy/guy "encounter"------let it NOT be the last------enjoy a new (and QUITE arousing!) chapter in your sex life!

 

There are encounters that appear to be but a "casual" encounter-----but-----could just as easily enough------turn into a solid and QUITE rewarding (and long-lasting) relationship------it CAN happen-----and I like to hear about it when it happens to right fellows------

 

I’m still looking and I think I found him at least I hope I have

 

GREAT NEWS! Sure hope this guy is "the right guy"----keep us posted!

 

Back in the CL days, I responded to a guy who sounded like he was in the same situation as me. We met just to see if things would click between us. Neither of us were experienced at male on male sex. He became the first guy to penetrate me and it turned out to be the start of an almost weekly weekend meetup that lasted almost two years.

 

I will keep you posted

 

Thanks-----and GOOD LUCK to you!

 

Thank you it really would be awesome at have a relationship with someone it’s been so long that I have forgot how . I just hope I don’t screw it up because it’s really hard to find a person to even start a relationship with now days it ok let’s have sex and then ok I’m leaving we might do it again and I know that means no it’s was the first time and the only time . So I hope it works out for me . I’m glad to have someone like you to give me encouragement your a awesome friend