How often are you able to get alone time with your special friend? Do you take advantage of the situation? Our wives had to go to a baby shower, two hours away. This left the entire day to do anything. It was too nasty to go outside. We set out to play pool,but first a drink, a toke and forgot about the pool game.We both knew what we really needed and played for Blowjob Winners Choice..giving or receiving. We gave each other 2 blowjobs and fell asleep in our chairs while watching TV. Do you do it with your friend everytime you get together and have a chance for a quickie bj?or are you able to have alone time with your friend?
Never know. We have gone months . . . and done it 2 days in a row. Love how you enjoyed your time I get the art about a drink and some smoke - definitely puts me in the mood!
When I had such a friend (or the last time I did), we'd "lie" to each other and say that we didn't have to blow each other every time we were together but, yeah, that's what we'd wind up doing anyway because when you have the time alone with each other, it should be spent doing what got the friendship started or took the existing friendship to this next level. He was much less experienced in this than I was and I loved his enthusiasm and energy he brought to our mutual sucking, which always made me look forward to seeing him. Beautiful cock, an amazing personality, and he was unafraid to approach me and ask how I'd feel if he asked to suck my dick; it took our friendship to the next level when my answer was to offer him my dick to suck - because what are friends for?
It was about once every two weeks I'd go to my old cocksucking friend's place. The wife knew, even knew he sucked me off. That was a long two weeks between trips when it was the only release I had. We spent all afternoon and into the evening. Later on, I had a friend who was gay nad had his own unit. I only saw him about every two months. That was a frustrating wait. We went at oral together for hours on and off. There has to be a way to have more regular sessions than that.
When my guy and I met some 14 years ago (through CL add for mutual blowjobs) we were both infatuated with each other's cocks. We'd take turns sucking each other on the living room couch before moving down to the floor and finishing each other off in a 69 position. We both worked second shift and our wives worked first shift so every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday mornings we were at one of our homes sucking each other's cocks, most times for a good two hours as we'd both swallow two loads of cum. We had this schedule for almost 10 years, and it was a wonderful situation. After 10 years we cut back to twice a week and just had a fantastic sucking session together this past Sunday afternoon. He and I truly enjoy sucking on each other's cocks.
I can't wait until the summer boating season gets going. My friend plans on being around all summer and will be a constant companion over the summer. The wives get sea sick, so neither has an interest in going fishing which gives us a lot of alone time. Out on the water, with nobody around we can do anything. Both wives know that we would be sucking each others dick somewhere along the way.
I've never had a bi-friend like this (except in childhood), but wish I had. I've now crossed over to the gay world exclusively, and get together with a huge gay social meetup group pretty much every week in a bar/restaurant, sometimes twice. I'm just friends with all of them, especially because most of them are boyfriends or husbands to each other (where are all the single gay men I ask). But I really wish I had a gay FWB. I'd really love to do lots of different activities with a male friend, go for dinners, movies, hiking, canoeing, camping, skating, etc. But also have lots of sex. I know how complicated a long-term romantic relationship can be, though I've never had one with a man (the two I've had with women were hell). I'm not against the idea, especially because I have fallen in love with two different guys, though unrequited, but I think a FWB boy friend (two separate words), man friend, sounds ideal.
And might I ask what you're doing to get an FWB? If you wouldn't mind, explain to me why you don't have one.
Being semi retired I tend to have a lot of “alone time”. One friend in particular comes over fairly often with little advance notice, occasionally he brings a friend who is a stranger to me. My friend knows I’ll answer the door naked and will be turned on and embarrassed all at the same time in front of a stranger. The worst/best was when he brought a mutual friend over, the guy knew I was bi but had never been sexual around me. Now there I was naked and we,I erect in front of a guy I had known for a few years. Despite the unease it was a good time.
My friend and I would have a long talk about inviting guys to join us and not telling me about it and just bringing them along. That's not me and him having alone time, is it? I'm expecting him - and planning for him alone - and he brings someone with him... and someone I don't know? Oh, hell, no. I can do multiple guys... when I'm expecting multiple guys - and then you bring a mutual friend that I've never been sexual with/around? Oh, fuck no! You might get away with that once but never twice.
I had a FWB for a few years. Both of us are married neither wife knows. He had his own business so 2 or 3 times a month we would meet in his office. We started just blowing each other, over time we started exploring more. Eventually we end up doing just about everything two guys can do to each other. Kissing, making out, nipple play, ass play, rimming and I topped him a few times. To our disappointment, he retired and moved away. Oh I need another FWB