When the wife wants to know, do you tell all?

When my wife was done with sex for herself, it was more for physical(medical) reasons, than mental. I could only wish that she would let me fuck other women. At over 70, options are limited. It is with her encouragement, and for my own good, that I had Bi encounters. She told me straight out , that women are off base but going the Bi route is ok with her. Her only demands were that she gets to know when I do it and all of the details.Even better is if she could watch. She has always been a fag hag and is into it, Bigtime! I feel embarrassed when I tell her but I could see the intensity in her eyes as she hears the details. She tells me that it gives her a feeling of satisfaction and excitement(not sexually), especially when she get to watch
If you wife knows, does she want to know the details, or participate in some way?Do you tell everything?
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If she approves and is happy so long as she is informed I guess it's the right thing to do.
You are getting your release and she is enjoying the stories.
I don't think you can play with her approved if you don't play by the rules.
No harm in telling her how it goes down or who's going down on who.

If you are playing outside of the marriage to get what you need then it's best kept a best kept secret.

 

I started during my first marriage (oral sex with other married men) and could never tell her what I was doing, nor at the time would I want to tell her what I was doing. After 25 years that marriage ended in an agreed divorce for reasons not as I spoke of earlier. However, I began dating my present wife and told her that I enjoyed sucking cock and have been doing so for a number of years before I met her. She was not shocked at all, having stated she heard that men over 40 years of age do have a tendency to engage in oral sex with other men and wanted to hear more. Having spilled my "guts" to her she wanted to witness and possibly join in. Well, we are still together and have enjoyed the most fulfilling sex life for each of us.

 

I’ve told my wife most of my experiences!… first time was a turn on!… now she doesn’t want to hear it!

 

As a guy who has a strong desire to see his wife experience bigger, I can tell you it comes from a place of truly loving her and wanting to see her fulfilled. To see her embracing her sexuality and getting pleasure that I can't give her is an extremely erotic thought. That is likely where your wife is coming from.

 

Lucky you. If I told my wife it would be divorce for me. Then I’d lose everything I’ve acquired during my life. Not willing to do that so I’ll continue to sneak around and suck as many cocks as I can.

 

Your gotta please yourself and your own desires sometimes.
If my wife was stepping out I would rather not know at all unless it was by agreement. She knows I would be happy for her to hook up with another female but doesn't seem interested and it hasn't opened the door to any other suggestions or conversation that would lead to anything mutually agreeable.

 

I've not hidden anything, so I don't have to explain myself later.

 

You are fortunate indeed. My wife of 50 years is very judgemental and quietly homophobic. She once took her anger out on me - she wrote “bisexual” with a fine tip Sharpie on my undershirts. I smiled and thought to myself “bring it on”.

 

Sure! I shared my entire sexual history with her as well as letting her know that I'm bisexual when we first met... and she wanted to hear about everything from the first time to the last time I'd been with a guy.

 

My present wife was and is the very same way.