When the Well Goes Dry

I agree. When there is lust and excitement and especially if there's lots of four play, I get a much bigger volume

 

I had two TIA's 8 yrs ago, then a blood clot and am on blood thinners so can't take ED meds ( might have another stroke) I can get it up but it takes a lot to CUM. Married 49 yrs and I can't keep it up for her, but it starts strong. I think I want a man to stimulate me!

 

Change is in the air. Hooking up for cock sucking in a day or so. Edging a bit and looking forward to it. No sexual activity for a decade or more. My hand is my best friend. I notice a big buildup of pre come oozing as soon as I get it up to play with it. Keeping my come for the sucking.

 

Glad to hear!

 

Late 50’s, still having ejaculations but the volume is never consistent.
Depends on known factors but overall it has decreased gradually.
Also on medication for the prostate which also decreases the volume. But still a decent amount.
I had 3 dry orgasms that felt almost the same as when there is semen, it seems like the back pressure to push the semen out contributes to stronger orgasms

 

Quite a few of the drugs used to treat an enlarged prostate, like and including Flomax can cause retrograde ejaculation. This is where you still ejaculate, but it ends up in your bladder instead of pushed through the urethra and out the tip of the penis.
That being said, I am 69 and I too have noticed a significant decrease in the amount of semen that I ejaculate. I have also noticed that I don't produce nearly as much precum as I used to. That was almost more disappointing than the decrease in semen. I used to produce so much precum that I would ooze volumes and my penis would be drenched. Now I get a few small globs and trickles. That being said my semen volume has probably decreased by half. It is very disappointing, but I'm past the stage of wanting to procreate so it's not the end of the world. The interesting thing is that my orgasms are, or at least seem more intense. I don't know if it's the fact that I'm still trying to ejaculate semen that's not there and it just feels more intense because there is not as much to force out.

 

At 65 and taking Flo-Max I guess I should feel fortunate that it hasn’t changed the volume of cum I can produce. I can still produce a mouthful especially if I haven’t cum in several days. And I’m still a heavy precumer.

 

I'm really want to increase my semen volume and precum.
From what I've read, drinking lots of water is crucial
I'm also thinking of taking some supplements. One thing I saw is called Load Boost.
Does anyone have any experience with this or similar?
Is there another thread on this topic? I did a quick search but did not see anything.

 

First, Don’t waste your money on a pill to increase your volume. The makers are preying on you. As far as I know, they are all gimmicks.
Stay healthy, exercise and work on your stimina.
And yes… Hydrate. Limit masturbation prior to being intimate.

 

Totally agree. I exercise, don’t smoke drink or do drugs by choice. I’m a gym rat at 63 and love sex with my wife fwb and fb and occasionally others. After the first two loads per day the volume decreases but as long as I can stay hard and satisfy my partners the volume doesn’t matter to me.

 

63 and still cum like a fountain fortunately.

I love it when the first blast hits a girl in the back of the throat when she’s not expecting it.

In that moment you find out how dedicated to the cause she is.

 

I lost my prostate after cancer 14 years ago and have dry orgasms since. I'm 69 now. It did not influence my sex life at all. Okay, sometimes I miss the mess, but often it's even convenient . The first dry orgasms caused goog laughs. It's all a matter of mindset. Accept what you have, don't complain about what you miss.

What did happen is that I got dreams in which I got loads of cum over me. That finally led to my first gay sex experience when I was 60. So I could even say it opened new worlds

 

I've found the experiences you guys have posted both varied & interesting as I'm in a similar situation, but it's exasperated by my lack of a prostate. Back in 2016 tests revealed I did have prostate cancer but that it was 'organ specific, ie not spread anywhere else. Of the various treatments offered to me I opted for a radical proctectomy (surgical removal of the prostate) as I was then in my 'sixties & my wife had already lost all interest in sex, so the risk of ED was worth taking if it meant curing the cancer .. 9 years later & my occasional PSA tests still show zero, so job done!

Like most of us I still masturbate on occasions, usually when viewing porn, as although I can't get a proper erection I can still have a orgasm of varying intensity .. no cum but sometimes what I believe is pre-cum. Without any heterosexual sex at home I've even considered male company, though without erection ability I'd be the partner receiving cock, but without a prostate to be stimulated am I going to get any pleasure at all from being screwed?

Thanks for your forbearance guys.

 

I've been fucked by a number of men and rarely have I had orgasms while being fucked. The sensations of my ass being fucked by his cock, the stretching of my anus feels so good as he plunges that warm throbbing cock inside me. I'm receiving just as much pleasure as he is getting and when he finally shoots his warm load inside me, I feel so wonderful knowing I provided for him. I've been fucked in the ass many times without having an orgasm myself, it's never taken away from the pleasures I always feel while being fucked.

 

Appreciate the reply. In my case so-called 'nerve sparing surgery' didn't. The surgeon was happy that the op. went well & according to plan but I've never been able to get it up since. Fortunately my sexless relationship at home has spared me the embarrassment of not being able to penetrate, though given the chance I reckon there won't be anything wrong with my tongue & fingers

 

At 62 on flomax (tamsilosin) zoloft ( sertraline) rouvastatin Propranolol, I find I can play stroke, stimulate my cock and get firm (not rock hard) and as soon as I stop what I'm doing I can watch my cock instantly go soft & shrink. Also now having difficulty (no recent success) cumming.

But like Lowhangers, strong desire to start getting fucked in the ass and experience a guy cumming in me or pulling out just before he does so I can finish him and swallow his load. Myself, I've come to enjoy ruined & denied orgasms along with chastity cages, so it is good for now.

Also have a string desire to alter myself physically to match my new desires and situation. I would like to get on estrogen and grow A, maybe B cup titties and have my balls & sack removed, leaving only my cock and a smooth area. No desire to go full blown act/live as F. But I do enjoy wearing a bra & panties ( skimpy as I can).