When people say threesome, they usually mean "v-some"

Interesting. I guess that's always been a little confusing.

I've never personally encountered a MFM where there was any bisexual action, and most people I've talked to about it seem to assume MFM is straight unless otherwise specified.

MFF can commonly go either way, so there is often a follow-up question to clarify what the girls did with each other. Some of my college friends used the term two-on-one to specify MFF with no lez action. Probably, most guys are always going to ask for more details. They usually want to know if the girls went down on each other, or just kissed, or traded finger fucks.

 

Hmm....in the few MMF threesomes that I've been in, the goal of each of us men was to have sex with the woman. BUT, we also interacted, stroked and sucked each other en route to the woman.

Kind of a v-some intent with 3-some action (to use the OP terminology)

I think that we both took advantage of the situation to play with a cock, but leave our hetosexuality intact.

 

Don't really care what a person chooses to do with someone else, but there is nothing heterosexual about a man stroking and sucking another man's cock!

 

If "being cool" and stroking another guy's cock is perceived as the "price" for a woman's willingness to have sex with with a man, then stroking that cock has a definite heterosexual component.

Edit: I just had a thought, "I desire a penis" is defiantly a (male) homosexual thought. But does thinking "this penis in my mouth isn't icky" indicate homosexuality?
Is aversion to penises a quality of heterosexuality or is non-attraction "sufficient".

(Yes, I know this is mostly desperate attempts to avoid being (self) labeled as not straight. )

 

no..if you interact sexually with a guy it is a homosexual act. That doesn't mean you're gay. But don't delude yourself that you didn't have gay sex.

does that change your heterosexuality? yah but only slightly. You don't fall into "homo" or "bi" categories but you're not "straight" if you're willing to "dabble" on the other side.

I've had sex with other dudes. I am not attracted to dudes (though I can recognize a good looking one) and the idea of kissing/snuggling/etc a guy honestly grosses me out. But I do like sucking/fucking etc..it's odd.

So I'm just you but more extreme as I would actively enjoy doing it (again not making out, holding, hugging, etc) I'm not gay as I'm not attracted to men..and I wouldn't even really call myself fully bi-sexual as, again, no attraction or desire to do anything non-sexual with a dude..but I'm certainly, like you, not "straight" either...

we need a 4th category

 

"Heterosexual with Bisexual Tendencies"

The LGBTIQAHwbTGwbt support center is developing a reallly long name.

 

or we could all just do whatever we feel like and not worry about how it might affect which category we're in, it would make everything a lot less confusing

if not, i suggest "spicy kapybara's" as the fourth category, because you might as well have fun with it.

 

See, I would love to be in a threesome. I can't understand 'v-somes'. If you're not going for a total group experience; why do you need more than two people?
Where's the release or fun in having these rules?

I don't think I think sex is taboo enough to understand them.

 

There is only 1 category, and that is Bi.

There is no such thing as Gay or Straight, just varying degrees of Bi.

Regardless of how you may like to deceive yourself, everyone will have a certain degree of Gay leanings, even if it's only in the occasional involuntary fantasy. It's a sliding scale. From the extremely effeminate / butch 'Gay', to the totally macho 'Straight', it's a sliding scale. Personally I consider myself to be about 75% Straight & about 25% Gay, so although I can happily enjoy having Gay or Straight Sex, but when it comes to relationships, then Gay Sex is just a physical thing, and in no way a possibility for romance.

Remember, 'Bi' doesn't mean 'Binary', as in On or Off, it's 'Bisexual' - As in being sexually attracted to either orientation.