when is the best time

I never leave messages. Even though my phone number is private and doesn't show up on caller ID, it's one of the ways that my family know it's me that called, because I'll never leave a message. I'm impatient, and I hate waiting for a call-back, especially if I have something I really need to tell someone, because many times people don't seem get your message anyhow. Take for instance, my mother and my sister. Leave them a voicemail and it's worthless. They never even check theirs!

So, I just try back later.

Peace...

 

I agree, call if you have something to say, forget the stupid rules, it's annoying and childish and everyone needs to get over it, this is the kinda thing that ruins relationships, it starts as a waiting game, when to call, but it just continues and spills over into bigger issues... follow your heart, not stupid rules that someone wrote in a self help book just to make money and trap people into a sticky thought pattern.

 

I would think that if they really didn't want to talk to you, they would have given you a bogus phone number. Seriously, I wouldn't give someone my phone number if I wasn't interested, why bother?

Peace.

 

i agree with this... I'd call her as soon as I got if I was really interested... although that didn't work too well in Swingers... maybe they do have a point...

(Mike)So tomorrow. (Trent)No, a day, then a day. (Mike)So two days. (Sue)I guess you could say that. (Mike)How long til you call your babies? (Trent & Sue)Six days.

come on madcrappie, just call her; you're money!

 

I'll give you better advice, call before she forgets about you, or forgets why it is she gave you her number in the first place.


This has happened to me before, guys will wait a while and of course I remember the guy, but vaguely and I don't remember why it is that I liked him enough to give him my number, so call before we lose interest in you guys, and honestly to me when it takes a long time for a guy to call I think he's conceited and trying to make himself out to be some stud who's too busy to call someone they were obviously interested in...maybe when you get the number you should set up a time that you will call, it's not hard to think up something to say to make yourself look like you have a reason to call, call her and invite her to go out to eat, that same day it's fine really...

my ex called me a few hours after we met, it kept the feelings flowing and accessible to me, if he had waited I would've had too much time to think about why I liked him etc. and nothing probably would've happened between us at all...so there, motivation for you!

 

YES, definitely call the next day. It does not appear desperate at all. That's my opinion anyway.

 

I don't get why it just shouldn't be easy to tell what to do. I mean if there is an instant connection, I've had experiences where they would call me as soon as I got home from meeting them and we would talk until we both go to bed. Those are always the best. You really just have to feel the vibe and do what's right! But waiting, when you really want to call them is really dumb and silly.

 

yo nitemarehippygirl ,if a girl gave me her fone number i would ringe her next morning earley while seh,s still in bed, but thats me ;peace and lol.

 

If I give a guy my number, then that means I'm interested and I want him to call me. Period, no games there...

If he waits a few days (or more), I'm going to think that he really wasn't interested and that he is just calling me because the girl he REALLY wants to go out with, stood him up.

I would expect to be called the same day, or the next day, if he is truly interested in seeing me...