I ask this because I have had opposite reactions. One ex wife got totally pissed and stopped talking to me. My current wife very different. The other day we were walking on the beach and there was an extremely attractive girl with a thong bikini. My wife said, "I bet I know exactly what you are thinking?" I said what? She said, "You would like to lick that for a few hours." I said yep and you are thinking that you'd like to join me. She said yep. These are just fantasies for us, we are all just talk and thought but we are totally satisfied in our sex lives.
It’s simple, we are sexual creatures. That said, my wife will look at the man package and I, because I am a boob man will look a breast. We both comment on what we see and have fun chats about it. No jealousy in our house. We talk sex daily anyway. It’s all good.