What does it take to get to where you and your partner get out of control and into a sexual craze where almost anything goes? My most enjoyable sexual encounters have been after the bars closing time. By that time, most inhibitions go right out the window.
Patience, I'd say; if it's meant to be, it will be. Getting rid of inhibitions can go a long way to being nicely out of control and everything - and everyone - is fair game.
When there are multiple people, some of whom will be watching and commenting before joining in. The MMF and FFM experiences were fun but a small group really gets things going. Like the swing club where on a few occasions I was able to really let thing go and simply enjoy being sexual in front of people. My inhibitions ruled me for a long time, it was fun to step over the line. To be completely naked in front of clothed or mostly clothed people was very freeing. O have sex and to orgasm in front of an audience was the best.
When I've gone for weeks with no release, then get with someone frisky and ready to rock, then the wild side comes out.
My man and I get into a sexual frenzy when he and his wife have multiple men over for pool parties in the summertime. Six naked men and two naked women on a sunny afternoon will full fill everyone's sexual fantasies. His wife and her sister love watching us guys sucking each other's cocks. Being in the presence of all these naked people sends me into a frenzy as I am needing to suck on every cock present throughout the afternoon and allowing any wanting my ass to have it. Summer is just around the corner, and I cannot wait for those sexy parties at their pool.