when does spanking get out of hand

mariecstasy · Oct 4, 2008

bostonbeans said:

I usually have no problem with the whole spanking thing, my issue though is when does it go too far? i mean ok, a slap on the ass is fine, but a slap on the face for me is too much. isnt the a bit too S&M?
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whenever it makes someone uncomfortable

Climbing Arms of Ivy · Oct 14, 2008

nesta said:

too s&m? it can't be "too" something unless its beyond what YOU want.

for me...all the slapping in the world (in the right locations, of course) wouldnt be enough. i love being slapped in the face. i love slapping a girl in the face. i love bending her over and spanking till she can't take it anymore. i like the same to be done to me. in fact, i even LIKE the line to be crossed to where one CANT take it anymore...but it happens anyway

but then again, this is just open handed slaps...nothing more. maybe a riding crop or different type of whip would be ok, too. but no paddles, no punching, no burning, no knives, no slapping the balls or tits, no leaving bruises (redden eachother up a bit though!) and EVERYTHING must ALWAYS be entirely consentual!

but thats just what does it for me. i like what i like, i dont like what i dont like. when it "gets out of hand" is only when its something i or my partner would be uncomfortable with.

as much as i love slapping a girl around, and as much as i like to get it right back (though i usually prefer to maintain roles throughout a session) if a girl i'm with doesnt like it at ALL, then thats that and there is no pushing for it. but i couldnt see myself in a long term relationship with a girl who wasnt kinky at all...i'd at LEAST have to be able to get SOMETHING i like....either deepthroat, or i get to be slapped around, or i get to give her a damn good spanking, or i get to tie her up or vice versa....i need something more than just plain boring old run of the mill in-out.

is slapping in the face too sm? when does spanking get out of hand? thats answered strictly on a personal level. there is no general answer.

its up to an individual to know their own limits and the limits of their lover, and to respect the established boundaries. otherwise there is no respect, no safety, and in essence no real love
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Nesta you can spank me anytime

davidanstey · Jan 4, 2009

Hand spankings for older children and teenagers is not ok. I suggest paddling or caning

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