when does spanking get out of hand

I have to say i am in a relationship where we practise discipline in the home and by incorporating spanking into our relationshipi have a fantastic and open relationship with my partner

 

a-fucking-men.
A open hand slap on the face is kinda nice sometimes.My limits are pretty low s&m wise though. We don't do much beyond light: nibbling,scratching ,open hand,hair pulling type stuff.

 

sweet! Wanna.....

 

im comfortable with being spanked, and my breasts slapped, but id never let him slap me in the face.

Its a personal boundary for obvious reasons, but years of sexual abuse as a child didnt make it any better. I refuse to be slapped in the face, and i would never do it to him either.

 

Nope, I am happily engaged.

 

Spanking! It's all a matter of respect and knowing your partners limitations.

 

/highfive

 

I knew kinky minds think alike!

 

The worst thing I ever saw and it was a real when spanking goes too far was in a club. The guy was bleeding. It was horrible. But he wanted more. Ok so it was consentual, but surely as a dominant you would think, ok this is causing damage, just maybe this has gone too far? I like my s&m pretty extreme at times, but unless it's needle play, bleeding is going too far.

 

For me the problem isn't him going too far it's him stopping too soon. I love to have that release and go into that submissive head space.
I suppose too far would be hitting anything other than my ass or breaking skin.

 

Believe me he doesn't slap only one spot. He works me all over. He just seems to stop as soon as I start to release. (cry) It's like stopping in the middle of a good orgasm. lol

 

Punish him? lol. Now that is too funny.
And abuse is not my thing. There is a big difference.

 

There is a big difference. Glad some others knows that.

Peace

 

i think spanking gets out of hand when you have discovered 2 braised lamb chops on the full moon...

 

I agree, I love a good spanking, but would never spank my boyfriend. I give him love taps as we pass each other but thats because I'm in love w/ his butt. If I ever did it in an agressive way,which I have'nt, I'm sure he would take off his belt and put me over his knee right then and there.

 

So let him do that and see how it goes. You may find that you like the belt.

 

Spanking gets out of hand when she tells you to stop and you don't. Otherwise everything else is pretty much ok. If you get too rough, your partner will let you know. if you don't call it off after that then its gone too far.

 

I like it Kinky

 

Some girls like it to burn.

 

Thats cool. A lot of people like it kinky.