When do you have officially sex?

A time ago I tried to have sex with this girl, but only the head of my penis got inside her vagina (I think it got in anyway).
We did not have any lube ready and I just could not get it in deeper, how hard we tried.

I wonder if I can still count it as sex?

 

no that is not sex. that is questionable penetration aka bumping-n-grinding

 

I'd have to say no. Get her wet next time!

 

peoples definition of official varies.

to some people, they have to get off to sex.
for others, if you just put the damn thing in they had sex.

its up to you really. its just a name, after all.

 

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i wouldn't count that as sex...try spitting on it next time...

 

No thats not sex

uh here's a suggestion. For play! Kiss the back of her neck, run your hands over her body, suck her nipples, EAT HER OUT. not only will you have great sex. She'll come back form more. sorry that was kinda x rated but yah gotta be some times.

one last thing for any guys questioning this. I am a man. Real men do for play.

 

What they said

 

Somebody *cough* bird mirgration *cough* needs to read a sex ed book.

 

you officailly have sex wen you get inside her. the it's officail, the documents are signed you can go home after.

 

one word: foreplay

 

I don't see why his question is about if he can say it was sex or not...shouldn't it be "how can I make sex easier for the first few times?" or something along those lines?

 

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why do you care is its "official" it depends on why your asking

can you catch/give deseases that way? Yes
can you get her pregnant like that? Posible but not likely if it didnt go in very far and you didnt come
would that make her feel good? most likely no, if a womans ready to feel pleasure from it her pussy will be very soft and slipery. It probably hurt.

I think the way some people start having sex is all wrong, dont just go "ok now were gonna do it" and then get naked and try to jam it in there. Go with what feels natural, make eachother feel good, and when shes all wet and soft and saying she feels the need for you to put it inside, then you do it. That worked great for me and my girlfriend (my first and current lover), and all the playing, feeling, fondleing, fingering, oral stuff and other fun that led up to it over time was awesome.

 

I think it's safe to say you're still a virgin.

 

spit on her pussy next time

 

Okay that is so gross. My friends and I have all had a guy do this.
I mean you're all in the mood and the guy is standing in front of you...and ya think he is going to start but then he decides that no there needs to be a bit more lube. So he just spits on you...thats gross, and such a turn off. I (along with my friends) have all gotten up and went to take a shower.

Oral is one thing but to just simply spit, totally not acceptable. IMO

 

But either way if shes turned on enough it'll be plenty wet, spitting on it wont make it wet enough anyway if her own juices arent coming out, why dont you stop being selfish and actually get her excited?

 

i knew i'd get some girls with that one!!!! BAHAHAHAH!! i dont do that ! just kiss on her neck ,and rub your dick on her pussy ..she'll get hot!!!

 

foreplay or Ultraglide (at your local drug store)
depending on if Mom and Dad will be back in an
hour or ten minutes. Just be careful what hole
ya aim for bucko. Some chicks don't like da back
door man.