when did you first know?

I was attracted to bodies regardless of them being girls or guys since my youth. I liked and still do a nice butt in women and men. I was an alpha and still am. I had initiative or I would reciprocate if approached by guys or girls with attractive butts and were willing to take me in.

 

Always loved a good looking female from day one and still do. Love sex with a female. However when I was a naive 18 yr old I was approached in a train station toilet. I was too scared to do anything but it played on my mind for years
When I was about 40. I was travelling by myself and stopped at a roadside area. I knew there was activity there I had the intention of receiving a bj. But instead I sucked on a beautiful cock. After that I was hooked. Still love sex with a female. Don’t find men attractive but love the mm sex

 

About 2 years ago. I wasn't looking for it. it just kinda happened.

 

Interesting read I personally am married for nearly 40 years. However I’ve always desired intimacy with another man

 

For me it was when I was 11. While out walking around my neighborhood one summer day I found a Playgirl type magazine someone had discarded in a bush. Looking through it I remember how excited and aroused I got seeing all of the naked men in there. I had always gotten aroused looking at Playboy and Penthouse but getting aroused by the men in that magazine was a totally new feeling. Shortly after that when I started covertly looking at other boys in the locker room after gym class and at the pool (and having some secret encounters with a friend) I knew I was bi.

 

I was a shy twenty year old when I met a very confident girl, very experienced. We had a threesome with a guy which confused me because I liked it, being sexual with him in front of her. I don't think I understood or accepted it till a couple years later.

 

When I was 13 I walked in on my best friend masturbating on their livingroom couch. He knew I was there, so it was planned. He was totally naked and furiously stroking, I laughed at first because I thought he was joking with a toy. When I realized it was actually his, and it was fucking huge, I instantly got a hard on and sat down next to him. We started chatting and he asked if I liked it and I was like ahhhhh, kinda. 2 minutes or so after sitting down he exploded all over himself. He got up, went and cleaned himself up and we headed out on our bicycles. Not long after he asked if I wanted to be gay with him (I so wanted to try sucking his cock when he was jerking off but didn't have the courage), and I said no, again no courage.

I regret not trying when I was a teen, it wasn't til I was in my 20's before I sucked my first cock, but I was hooked right away!!

 

I knew it since I was a kid.
My older brothers used to watch lots of porn.
They invited me to watch some when I was nine years all and I loved it, it gave me a strong feeling of arousal.
In school I tried to replicate with my peers what I watched in the movies with either boys or girls in the school bathrooms.
At the age of ten one of my brother's friend who used to watch porn with them asked me if I wanted to play with him as in the movies.
One night he invited me to play in his patio, so we went there and he made me suck his dick which I enjoyed very much until he filled my mouth with cum and told me to taste it.
What an experience!
Then he told me to put my pants down and to bend over.
He tried to penetrate me but I was too tight for that.
Years pased until I was in high school and had several girlfriends I had sex with but I felt there was a missing link in order for me to get fully satisfied.
When I was 16 I met a guy who was 24 at a night club and invited me a couple of drinks and asked me to go with him to another chub saying that it was a better place to be.
We had to drive there so he told me to go in his car.
While on the road he started talking about sex and girlfriends and said that he had sex with men to see how it was.
He got mme so hot with his words that I don't know how we ended up kissing and touching eachother.
To make the story short we ended up me fucking him and wow, what an experience.
Since that time I have been Bisexual as my sexual orientation until today.
I have an open minded Bisexual wife which I love and we live an open relationship of 7 years.

 

High school. On the first day of the first year in high school there was this classmate of mine who looked so feminine that I mistook him for a girl and went crazy about him. But when the teachers said we had only one girl in our whole class and they introduced her to us, I knew he wasn't a girl. But I was still sexually attracted to him, though I never got the courage to tell him. From that day on I spent all PE classes sitting on the bench, otherwise the whole class would be able to see his effect on me.

But tbh nowadays I view my bisexuality as a curse and I wish I could get rid of it. The fun days are over anyway, so I'm back to the old days when I was pretending to be straight.

 

I first knew for sure when I was in Navy Boot Camp. I had a crush on a guy in my company. Unfortunately I never had the chance to talk to him. But I found him very attractive and wanted him badly.

I had thoughts earlier than that but was trying to suppress them. I couldn’t deny my strong feeling for that man in Boot Camp!

 

I found this very similar to my process..I'm a bit younger..In my 40s..Always liked girls, never had an interest in men in any way..Like some of us here it begins with a cock curiosity..It began in my 20s..I saw a bi porn and couldn't look away..That was the first time I saw a man suck a dick and I couldn't look away even though it felt so wrong and taboo..I found it randomly entering my thoughts over time..The thoughts became more frequent and until I had to see more..I became fascinated with cock and oral sex between males..Eventually in time I realized I was fantasizing of being that man on his knees..I didn't know it yet but that scene opened a bisexual part of me I had no idea was there. The inevitable day of searching Craigslist was upon me and I was seeking my first cock

 

After a big cold glass of Ovaltine (or was it a Bud Lite with a rainbow on the can?).

 

When I was about 12 or 13, my dad use to work at Carleton University in Ottawa, and would take me and my friends every week to the Olympic size pool.
The locker room was full of beautiful rods, that I would notice and think about went I went home. It feed my masturbation for a long time.
Then, when my best friend slept over after one trip to the pool, I had a chance to live my desire. It started with wrestling in our underwear, but when I pulled his cartoon underwear down for a joke, I came face to face with his semi hard cock. He dared me to touch it, which I did, and as his sausage started to get hard, I did as well. I instinctively licked the head, that progressed to sucking my first cock. Then I knew I loved cock

 

If I didn't know anything else, I knew that I was attracted to the sex when it came to boys. Sure, there were guys that I liked and all that. I would, later in life, understand and realize that I was romantically attracted to some guys - but not until I fell in love with a gay man and really had my eyes opened to a great many things. But unless I missed something, the attraction to guys never appeared until the first time I had a dick in my mouth and tasted cum - and it was so good and exciting and I couldn't wait to do it again... and again... and again and with any guy who wanted to. But I'd also learn that we tend to shame those who are attracted to the sex; we insist that they must be attracted to the person first and foremost and that sex should never be a prime consideration... and that's just insane. I either like you or I don't; just because I like you doesn't mean I'd want to have sex with you and no matter how "attractive" I think you are.

The truth about myself is... I'm attracted to the sex and it took me quite a while to be able to admit that to myself. I'm good with it. That and attraction is eye of the beholder stuff even though we are told what is considered to be attractive and what isn't - and who we can and cannot be attracted to and in any way...

 

Maybe 9-10, some of my classmates liked it, both boys-girls

 

I know how you feel I was about 7 or 8 when I knew

 

In my teens I pulled off a friend and he pulled me off. I just admired his big fat veiny cock. I didn't know about categories like bisexual etc. I knew of Gays and straights. The sight and feel of his large veiny cock in my hand burned in my mind and I always wanted to do it again, while identifying as straight. As it turned out he was fully bisexual versatile, having anal with some friends by mid teens. I wouldn't go there once I found out and did nothing until I was 50 and sucked cock with a bi male or two. I didn't want a cock in me and I would still avoid it.

 

I wouldn’t say I “knew”, because I had never thought about it before. I loved women, or girls in high school and college. But me and my high school neighbor were both dweebs, and out of interest to any girls. So one night, my neighbor and I were out at the back of our shed, and after a somewhat heated argument, he told me to “shut up, or suck his dick”. The next thing I knew I was on my knees, sucking my first cock. We became SBs For a couple years, somewhat frequently. I went away to college and had my first real GF. loved sex with her and didn’t give my friend a second thought. Then I returned back to my hometown and hooked up with my SB , off and on for a couple years until I graduated and moved away. From then on, it was strictly women, without even thinking about cock. Never told anyone about my experiences, until I met my current wife. One night early on when we were living together, she asked me about my past. I figured I’d better confess to my SB. At first she was shocked, and I thought she would dump me. Over time she started asking more questions, and seem to be turned on by the idea. She wanted to start watching bi/gay porn it always got her worked up. We would see a particular scene, and she asked me if I had done that? Yeah, but no anal. It led to her using a strap on with me, either me sucking it or her fucking me. We had a few MFMs with a close friend, and after one such session, she suggested finding a bi that we could both enjoy. COOL. unfortunately, we never did find the right guy. Damn that would’ve been hot as she was on board with it.
Now after a few years of a sexless marriage, my desire for a cock, whether sucking or bottoming, has reared its ugly head. It will probably never happen, but the fantasy still exists.