If there are some 90-year-olds still throwing the leg, God bless them! I have a protege who has a thing for older men - guys my age and older - and I still laugh at him because he got with a 70-year-old... and got his head handed to him. I've been trying to disabuse him of his top mentality and to school him on the fact that some men aren't going to care if he's a top and they're going to top him. He thought that this older guy was a bottom and like a lot of the older men he's gotten with and... surprise! Seventy-years-old with a fat 9" pipe that my protege got very familiar with and the good thing for my protege was that this older guy was versatile so my protege got to top him... after he needed a break from being topped. He was surprised and I told him, "I keep telling you to not let the grey hair fool you! I'll bet you won't make that mistake again!" I just wish I could have seen the older guy laying the pipe to my protege, who was 43 at time he got schooled. I'll say that, like "most" tops, he never really thinks about the fact that, for one, not every man he's going to meet is going to be a bottom (or willing to bottom) but is going to bend him over and fuck the daylights out of him so when it happens, he's often surprised but he's learning.
KDaddy23- Boy I'd PAY to see THAT inter-generational "coupling"-----dang!!!!There's an old saying: "With age there is experience"--------in this case-hell yes! ALWAYS hot as hell when a "top" decides to "switch positions"-and then thinking: "Hey----a guy can get used to this!) I'll be 67 in a few weeks (yikes!) but I can still "throw a bone" as quick as I did 40 years ago!
KDaddy23- Boy I'd PAY to see THAT inter-generational "coupling"-----dang!!!!There's an old saying: "With age there is experience"--------in this case-hell yes! ALWAYS hot as hell when a "top" decides to "switch positions"-and then thinking: "Hey----a guy can get used to this!) I'll be 67 in a few weeks (yikes!) but I can still "throw a bone" as quick as I did 40 years ago!
I wonder how often a top decides that, hmm, it might be fun to bottom? In my own experiences, I've not seen that happen often or, if memory serves, at all. Hell, I was lucky to turn some tops into cocksuckers so at least I'd get a blowjob in exchange for being able to fuck me. I would suppose, and to stay on topic, that once a guy decides that older men are what they desire, there's rarely a reason to change and more so when a lot of guys do have an age preference and aren't likely to change it to, say, throw it down with a cum-filled 19-year-old; instead, they'd rather continue to pursue guys our age and older.
In theory. Sexually, we don't worry about a lot of the shit we worried about when we were younger; we understand our limits and we don't have sex to impress someone and, importantly, you get who we really are, not what someone expects us to be. If you're like me, um, er, you've been there, done that, own several T-shirt concessions and instead of going around the block, you own the motherfucking block.
Strange how with certain guys (regardless of sexuality) they find their sexual urges decrease as they get older-while others just get hornier and just want to "play the field"(or should that be "LAY the field"?) for as long as they can!
They often say: You are as young as you feel"-------if you FEEL young (and your "urges" are still strong------go right ahead and "flashback" to your younger days and "sow your wild oats"!
You sure hit the nail on the head! (if you got a "senior stallion" in your corral-best close the gate before you dish out the sugar"!)
reading through the comments and reflecting on my life .. when i was younger i was into other guys my age and didn't even look at older guys .. now that i am the older guy lol .. must admit i am attracted to guys my age and not interested in younger guys having sons and son in laws in their 20's my earlier years i was mostly top but as time has progressed i enjoy being a top to a nice bottom and a bottom to a nice hard cock .. if that is with the one guy that's good and if it requires 2 guys than that's good too
I hope I never lose interest in sex - however, I have to admit that not getting sex is pretty frustrating. I don't need it every day by a long shot - but I get a little irritable when I go more than a few days. I also love the whole thing about sex with someone - just connecting on that level - getting naked and feeling another human's skin on mine. Can't beat that with a stick.
Papa: Going "solo" for nearly 66 years-I know all about "beating a (big!) stick"-------hell-yes! All kidding aside-----going without sex for long periods SUCKS (and not in a GOOD way!)-----trust this guy-I know-------as you say----it's all about the "connection" between two guys-regardless of age----the closeness-passion-and yes-lust------ain't nothing gonna get better than that-------
Senior gay/bi guys who are not only lucky enough to "connect" with other like guys-but also-(in the case of bi guys with a wife) are lucky enough to get a "green light" through an understanding wife indeed has it all------and when older guys "going at it" do not fear "outing"-----it's clear sailing!
I think that, at some point in our senior years, we... just don't give a fuck about the things we used to give a lot of fucks about and especially when we find ourselves cut off from pussy; then, um, hmm, getting some dick just makes all the sense in the world...
It's LONG past due to deep-six the redundant "labels": straight SEX------Bisexual SEX------gay SEX-------get it? It's all SEX----regardless of "labels"--------as long as you are with another consenting adult-who is also of likewise persuasion----------GO FOR IT (and ENJOY to the FULLEST!)
Of course, it's all sex but we humans, well, we have to make the distinctions since they do mean something. We use "bisexual sex" to describe when we're getting some dick and to imply it's the kind of sex that bisexuals have since we love pussy, too. But we can be sticklers for detail so when it's two guys having sex, it's gay sex and regardless to the sexuality of the men involved. Straight sex means good old heterosexual sex... if that's the way you prefer to have sex. With maybe the exception of being able to impregnate women, if there's something I can do with a woman, I can do it with a man, including inseminating him rectally. It's... sex. It's just that if a man is having sex with a woman, well, it's not gay sex, is it? There's heterosexual sex and there's homosexual sex and bisexual sex is... the sex bisexuals have; could be with a man or a woman and, if they're lucky, both in the same setting but, again, usually used to describe a bisexual male getting some dick. You get to a certain age, and you understand this and... you don't give a fuck what it's called as long as you can do it. I can have gay sex and I'm not gay. I can have straight sex and I'm not all that straight. To me, it's always been sex but the labels do serve a purpose and I don't much care what the label haters have to say about it.
KDaddy 23-another excellent post-and yet again-you hit the nail squarely on the head; again-SEX is just that-SEX-regardless of the genders taking part in the testesterone-laden action!