I got, and wanted nothing! My sanity and freedom meant far more! The selfish men in divorces usually keep everything, or moan about giving half up! All women out there, when you go out to work during your marriage, put your pay in your own bank, then if you divorce, you leave him with his own stuff.. Pay into your own pension, don't buy a house with him..then see who moans!
I don't know any women that did that. Most give up work as soon as they can then bitch about how hard raising kids is .... even though the kids spend most of the day at school. And in the USA they expect alimony for the rest of their life because you once fucked them. Then in the UK they get a guaranteed income of 15+K a year tax free (child tax credit) for getting 100% custody.
Says a lot about the women in your circle and why your where you are! I worked harder than my x! And looked after the kids, while the lazy moaning git sat back and cried about what a sad life he had..which he does now
My aunt worked very hard for 20 years, while her good for nothing , mostly jobless husband spent her money on alcohol, gambling, and failed business ventures. When she finally decided to get a divorce, he got half of everything. Needless to say, fuck yeah, she got her sparkle back. And that is the only divorce ever in my family lol. See, it works both ways. Shitty people of both genders.
from what I have seen in my life divorce can usually long term be a good thing for both parties. most of the first marriages in my family have failed, but I have seen highly successful second marriages AND the exes hanging out with their new spouses all together with the whole family laughing and having a great time...everyone seemed to ultimately get extra sparkle I guess everyone sees different types of divorce