when a female says...

When a woman says that they are very confused and do not know what they want; or have alot going on at the moment; and still just don't know what they want.

Spend less time with her, play hard to get, act as if you are spending time with a different female and see how she reacts.

 

stoner

hahaha its amazing how similar our situations are.

positive.vibrations gives good advice. which i have already done. i think it will work out in my benefit too.

spending less time with her gives her room to breathe - separation makes the heart grow fonder.

playing hard to get? eh...yes and no. don't be all up in her shit, but definitely show that you have some affection to give.

definitely DO hang out with other girls (friends that are girls too). the way i see this is that you are showing her that you already have female friends, you don't need another.

 

No, her seeing or knowing about him hanging with other girls is going to make her feel jealous that that time is not spent with her, even though there is no relationship. It's called having your cake and eating it too..

Spending less time with her and showing less affection will make her realize how stupid she was to do what she did and will try to make up for it if she likes him. So if she doesn't there isn't huge feelings or she is just being scared. Either way, not ready.

 

she has conflicting and/or confusing feelings

 

It means you're a wonderful sensitive young man with a good head on your shoulders, and some young lady is really going to adore you.