I was actually browsing an online prostitute service last night (i was bored) and was looking at what was available, and though her face wasn't in any of the photos, I saw someone I am sure I went to school with It's almost tempting to call her to find out Although if it wasn't her it would be kind of awkward And if it was it would probably be more awkward
I was nervous in New York because things are kind of rough here. I could not reach orgasm with one of them, and went limp with another (probably because I was too drunk). But the experience with the Brazilian prostitute was one of the most relaxed I've ever had with woman. We talked for 4 hours the second time I saw her (the next day), before having sex. And she insisted I didn't pay. There is no accounting for that because we just hit it off. We would have hit it off regardless of what she did for a living.
i paid for 1/2 of a BJ i got from a stripper up in canada... i was drunk, my friend talked to the stipper, she came over and started talking to me, went to the back. we talked for a bit, talked about what i wanted, she even asked if i was sure i wanted to go through with whatever we did - so i decided on a BJ...so we talked about a good price for both of us...even in my drunken state i knew i wasn't going to pay much. with all that out of the way, she put a condom on me adn went to town...which about 20 minutes later i still didn't climax yet...she asked me if i wanted her to continue, which would have meant me paying more money...so i decided it was not worth it to spend more money haha... so we ended there...she cleaned me up with a warm cloth...then we both went out. she went to an employee only room while i got the money... she came over and we talked, just chatting with my friends and i, and she mentioned her jaw hurt which made me not climaxing worth it. gave her the money and went back and watched some more strippers dance on subsequent visits back, she would ask me if i wanted to try my luck again, this time when i wasn't already drunk....i never took her up on her offer
i have mixed feelings about it. people are going to do it whether its legal or not...i have grown up with girls who ended up selling sex for money, drugs, or a place to stay. prostitution is always going to be around whether its legal or not. however i think its unsafe and should not be legal.
You mean if there were no hookers there would be no johns right?! That is the main reason cops go after the hookers instead of the johns most of the time. Where there are prostitutes there will be johns but not the other way around. Anyways I think it's a victim less crime, they legalize it like more of Europe has: Have certain parts of the city/state districted off just for that type if stuff so it can be regulated and taxed
Anti-prostitution laws are in-themselves illegal. It's entrapment. There is no other way to arrest individuals for prostitution other than entrapment. How are going to prove what happened behind closed doors between consenting adults? Or in a private conversation? The porn industry is legal because it dumps a lot of money in the pocket of politicians. I think legally they justify it as, the "actresses" are not being paid for sex but for the acting. Yeah, right- it's sheer hypocrisy. You could easily say street hookers are being paid for the date, not for the sex. Conversely, you could say a lot of dating, cross-gender interaction in night-clubs, marriage, and much of what goes on in the entertaiment industry, and the women who orbit around the lives of men of power and money like satellites- is prostitution. They are having sex with men, on the condition that they materially benefit from it---.
*spoken in a hypocritical female tone* Oh, in that case I'll have a white russian. But don't you expect sex from me just because I dress this way!
*shrugs* There is a significant rise in sexual assault crimes in Amsterdam in the past 10 years. It's kind of the prime example of legalized prostitution gone wrong.
try a new system. make brothels not only regulated and legal, have heavy security AND make it membership only, involving rigorous background checks... wouldnt entirely prevent issues, but it could only help