I'm guessing most guys wank in their bed, in the shower or at their PC. All times of the day, which means there's not going to be a grouping of responses which mean much. What I actually would like to know is whether you:- 1. Do you do it alone, watching something or fantasising 2. Do you watch yourself in a mirror 3. Do you video yourself and use it later to get off again 4. Do you video yourself and swap with someone else to get off to their video next time 5. Do you go on live cam/whatsapp etc (which place) with someone mutually to watch each other masturbating live? I've done all 5 but mostly it's in the sequence of 4, 2, 1, 5. Wondering too if there's another potential option, without actually meeting up.
I get up early in the morning to go to the toilet, ok, bathroom. I sit up in the lounge recliner, read this forum's members goings on and slowly work my hard on, and massage the pre come in, trying to edge. I have an art area, with some privacy. There I retreat to, to lose a load of indeed to or just want to enjoy my cock in Private any time.
I guess I don't really have ritual. Whenever I want to masturbate I jump to the computer, 4 fingertips in front and the thumb behind supporting the whole thing. Actually, it may sound kinda boring but I masturbate the same way as when I was 11 and never felt the need to change any of it!
The question was 'What's your M ritual?' but the options listed aren't really about the way you approach pleasuring yourself. The issues to reveal are - whether you always (or mostly) follow a process or pattern every time, why you do (or do not do so), if so when and where you do it, under what circumstances, in what position, and how you do it. For example: how often do you masturbate? is your masturbation always the same? when do you masturbate and why? where do you masturbate (bedroom, bathroom etc)? Are you dressed, partially undressed or naked? Do you do it standing up, sitting, kneeling or lying down? Do you use your hand or hands, rub against something or use a sex toy? do you use lubrication? do you have a set pattern from initiation to ejaculation? do you edge? do you use porn and what kind? do you use erotica, fantasy, or thoughts? is masturbation a part of sex with a partner? The answer to these questions (if given fully and honestly) would not only be interesting but would be informative and help us all understand and enlarge our sexual activities especially if we outlined the stages of our self pleasure. From the outset I experimented with new and different things, some of which worked for me and others did not. Mine varies depending on mood, circumstances, time available and mood. However, like most of us, there is usually but not always a common pattern with three stages - arousal without touching, light touch avoiding onset of orgasm, firm touch intended to reach orgasm. 1. Do you do it alone? - Yes but also with my partner Watching something or fantasising? - Soft porn images and gifs mostly but when I masturbate standing up I fantasise or remember notable sexual encounters 2. Do you watch yourself in a mirror? - Only when masturbating standing up 3. Do you video yourself and use it later to get off again? - No but I have videoed myself in order to understand myself better 4. Do you video yourself and swap with someone else to get off to their video next time ? - No 5. Do you go on live cam/whatsapp etc (which place) with someone mutually to watch each other masturbating live? - No, I have no inclination to do so Suggestions for additional questions - 1 Do you have distinct 'stages' when you masturbate where what happens is different? 2 Do you have occasional periods (several days) when you are sexually heightened, think about sex constantly and need to engage in masturbation more frequently? 3 Do you watch yourself ejaculate? 4 Do you vocalise and/or talk during masturbation or ejaculation? 5 Do you touch yourself differently in the final climactic minutes than you do before?
The question was 'What's your M ritual?' but the options listed aren't really about the way you approach pleasuring yourself. The issues to reveal are - whether you always (or mostly) follow a process or pattern every time, why you do (or do not do so), if so when and where you do it, under what circumstances, in what position, and how you do it. For example: how often do you masturbate? is your masturbation always the same? when do you masturbate and why? where do you masturbate (bedroom, bathroom etc)? Are you dressed, partially undressed or naked? Do you do it standing up, sitting, kneeling or lying down? Do you use your hand or hands, rub against something or use a sex toy? do you use lubrication? do you have a set pattern from initiation to ejaculation? do you edge? do you use porn and what kind? do you use erotica, fantasy, or thoughts? is masturbation a part of sex with a partner? The answer to these questions (if given fully and honestly) would not only be interesting but would be informative and help us all understand and enlarge our sexual activities especially if we outlined the stages of our self pleasure. From the outset of masturbation I experimented with new and different things, some of which worked for me and others did not. Now it varies depending on mood, circumstances, time available and mood. Inevitably, most sessions follow the same pattern - arousal without touch, light touch avoiding ejaculation, firm touch to reach orgasm. 1. Do you do it alone? - always but often with my partner Watching something or fantasising? - mostly looking at images or gifs but occasionally fantasising 2. Do you watch yourself in a mirror - I used to often in my youth, now when I sometimes masturbate standing 3. Do you video yourself and use it later to get off again? - No 4. Do you video yourself and swap with someone else to get off to their video next time? - No 5. Do you go on live cam/whatsapp etc (which place) with someone mutually to watch each other masturbating live? - No Additional suggested questions - 1 Do you have distinct 'stages' when you masturbate where what happens is different? 2 Do you have periods in which you are more sexually focussed and need to masturbate more often or differently? 3 Do you watch as you ejaculate? 4 Do you vocalise during masturbation and orgasm? 5 Do you touch yourself differently in the final climactic minutes to before
1. Do you do it alone, watching something or fantasising -Mostly alone and watching anal porn on pc (straight, bi, gay, trans). Sometimes my wife is watching. I do mostly anal masturbation and sometimes it leads to vanilla masturbation in the end. Sometimes it leads to sex with my wife. 2. Do you watch yourself in a mirror -Sometimes, yes. It's really exciting. 3. Do you video yourself and use it later to get off again -Sometimes and I use it later, yes. 4. Do you video yourself and swap with someone else to get off to their video next time -No, never done that. Once I have showed my video to my wife. 5. Do you go on live cam/whatsapp etc (which place) with someone mutually to watch each other masturbating live? -Years ago few times.
