I've heard ex-porn stars say that too. I've also heard porn stars and ex-porn stars say they love sex and love doing porn. The thing is, you're never going to hear anyone say anything good about porn on a mainstream news or talk show, such as Oprah Winfrey, Dateline, or any of those shows, and that's due to the general puritanical bias in this country. It's just not PC to say porn is a good thing. But there are a few shows and radio programs in this country that are not afraid to tell it like it is, Howard Stern for example, and that's where you'll hear the opposite side of this issue. If porn is so bad, it wouldn't exist, and the producers wouldn't be making so much money. The fact is, people do like it, and people rent and buy these videos. Not everybody, of course, but a lot of people. And nobody is forced to perform these sexual acts in front of a camera. If someone later wishes they had chosen a different career path, or had had better opportunities and choices in their life, well, that happens to all of us. But not everyone regrets their choices in the porn industry. It's just the ones that do that we usually hear about.
I find it mindboggling and amusing that people hide behind a mask of "disgust" and "shame", but millions of people still buy it. It's just naked human beings engaging in a perfectly normal and fantastic activity. It's just naked people fucking, you see dogs do it on the side of the road everyday. And I'd much rather see two naked people than dogs...
I get turned on by: two guys on one girl scenarios, rough sex, transvestite porn, gay porn I don't like to see: Oral sex, lesbian, S&M, piss and shit and .....those fucking SHOES!!!
One other thing I don’t like in a porno: that really stupid music they sometimes play when sex is going on. It sounds so corny and kind of ruins the mood for me. It's best when there is no music whatsoever in the background. Just the natural sound of sucking, fucking, and moaning is so much better, imo. A lot of pornos have that music, but some don’t.
Kissing while a girl is being fucked missionary is a major turn on. Water sports/other icky things no one should do are turn offs lol
turnons... hairpulling, rough sex, doggy style, light bondage, some humiliation, mouthfucking, titfucking, multiple men involved turn offs... gay porn (male or female, just not my cup of tea), sneakers on naked people (don't mind heels though), golden/brown play, male submission, strapons, toys (sorry, boooring to watch), really fake moaning, not being able to at least fake being into it (glazed over eyes, no noise, etc)
Most pornstars have short legs! Men dont pay attention to that but as i'm surrounded by models all day long i can't help it to notice these things. And pornstars are usually 5-10kg heavier than models so without shoes they might look a bit :s you know
on: talking normal and diry talk but not scripted-sounding off: looking towards the camer, bad lighting, unrealistic orgasms
turn on: anything with rocco sifreddi, REAL lesbians, strap on sex, M-M-F threesomes, cunnilingus, orgies, role play scenarios, mild spanking, small tits, girl masturbation. turn off: anal, biting, poo, piss, cum shots, F-F-M threesomes (so boring), heavy s&m, large breasted women, massively endowed males.
I think I'm just going to give some totally generalized answer of my own. Turn-ons: It's sexual. Turn-offs: It can often seem very fake and cheesy.
I like it when the guy slaps his cock between her pussy lips and grinds the shaft on the edge of her hole... yes, a nice turn on
I like a good hand job movie. And not one where the chick is just whacking away as fast as possible, I mean where she takes her time getting the guy hard, then really gets him going by a variety of grips, adding some lube, stroking his balls and occasionally his bell end, and slow, steady stroking, until the guy's bucking and ready to blow. The best ones I've seen have been at her-sweet-hand dot com. Some really beautiful girls with superb technique. I also like some of the sybian movies. I think the guy who does her-sweet-hand also does these and I get a rock hard boner watching these girls losing control.