What's Wrong With Having Daddy Issues?

One of the reasons he abandoned it was because all his subjects named their father as the perp. He knew this would be statistically impossible.

i.e the father has to disgusting rather than ever admit out loud even unconsciously about their true feelings towards the father at a certain age

 

I really don't understand why someone would want to be called daddy. If I was doing matress gymnastics with a girl and she calls me daddy, I will smack that bitches ass and tell her to stop that shit.....On a serious note to me it is such a turn off, that if it ever had to happen, my best friend will go as limp as cooked spaghetti

 

You call your penis your best friend? That's almost just as strange.
I call mine Herman the german (because of his helmet)

 

Hahaha little red soldier with the purple helmet!

 

"I'm going in!"

For honor and the motherland!

 

I hope there is no spike on the top of the helmet! Yes it is my best friend we have grown up together. I name it Jamaica because a lot of girls say " Jamaica me crazy" and I tattooed the name on it. So when it is not erect is show's Jamaica, but when it is erect it shows"Welcome to Jamaica and enjoy your day"

 

You know what bragging about size on the internet really implies right?

 

Lol, yes I do. It's like fantasy and reality never what you expected.

 

Exactly! Who gives a shit what anyone else thinks, as long as it's something that's a turn on with the one you are with!

 

Ok but just because women search for daddy daughter porn, it doesn’t mean they actually fantasize about having sex with their dad. It could just be the whole “young and old” thing that’s the turn on, not so much the relation.
It’s hard to explain. I search it as well, but I have no desire to fuck my dad! I can’t even have his face come into my head or I get squeamish.

 

My girlfriend sometimes calls me "papi" and I think that's adorable, mainly because she says it in a cute way.

 

I’d call you daddy just so you would smack my ass! Lol

 

I’d like to know more about his theory. Do you have a link I can read?

 

If your girlfriend is calling you papi, she looooooves you! You are THE SHIT! Don't take that lightly, be superbly happy for that compliment!

 

When the feelings are genuine and mutual, I do not see it as a problem. But a lot of 'daddy' talk seems to be more of a fetish than anything else. Even worse when the only big thing that the girl is attracted to is the size of the guys wallet. LOL.

 

Oh yeah, I totally take it as a great compliment and I'm super flattered.

 

Well, firstly Freud was around late 19th century, when women werent allowed to do a lot of things, would have just naturally assumed women were naturally mentally inferior, plus at the time everyone around him didnt really understand what he was on about, so he wouldnt have really had anyone to bounce ideas off, tell him such and such part of a theory sounds like a load of crap, so he is to be taken with a grain of salt

But he was all about everyone being driven by psycho-sexual urges from early childhood. We are not talking about your father now, or from when you really started to remember things, or from when you hit puberty and became more self conscious. We are talking like when you were 2 years old, you wouldnt remember your thought processes as a 2 year old, you wouldnt have even understood the concept of what a father was, would have been operating just on instinct, every thing scary, we arent even necessarily talking about your biological father, just whoever you felt most secure with at the time.

You wouldnt have understood your mother and father were your mother and father, what those terms meant, but you would have been able to differentiate between your mother and father as your mother was the one feeding you. This is how differentiating between the sexes starts for most of us. Even if you are not breast fed its still usuall the mother, grandmother, aunt feeding you with the bottle most of the time.

But to keep it short, you are talking about your fathers face and how you remember it from puberty onwards, still doesnt mean you havent been led subconsciously the whole time by the memory or idea of, wont use the word father, but whoever at 2 years old you thought was that other usually larger primary care giver that didnt feed you and smelt and sounded different to your mother

 

Sorry to quote the same thing twice, but a separate idea:

Women for the most part are more about monogamy, bonding for life, sex outside that is icky, sex in general is icky

Try get most guys to put an evolutionary spin on it, they will get evolutionary theory wrong and suggest thing like oh its about women going for the alpha male, or characteristics they feel will be favourable in their offspring. Or they will think its all about big cocks, because of all the porn they watch involves big cocks, and thats the main way they get off, thrusting their cocks into something

But instead of biology or evolution, how much of that greater need for monogamy stems from the stuff Freud was on about, that security you felt when you were 2 years old. Another reason Freud abandonded the seduction theory was because initially he assumed things were equal between males and females, ;ater worked out he was wrong. He had no clue about all the hormones running through peoples brains at that time.

At birth there is already a big difference in the hormonal cocktail running through male and female brains, testosterone makes you more aggressive, less fearful. So at 2 years old, that need for security isnt as strong in males, so they dont develop an unconscious need for security as much as females

That is, 0-2 years old females do actually bond with their parents better, learn to smile earlier, form those social bonds faster and earlier. You never wondered why female eyes for the most part are larger, wider than males? That cant be just about genes


If i say to a any guy, all guys want to fuck their mom, the response is, err what , oh ick, but it never gets them angry. If I say to a female, all women want to fuck their dads, it pretty much always gets them angry, sometimes its the quickest way to get a female angry - after a while its not to hard to work out the difference between a woman that gets angry about it becuase her dad was a creepy perv compared to what Freud was on about, and she's the creepy perv that got to puberty and didnt let go - buys the same clothes for both the husband and the father

Most of you are in that second category, and its way too easy to manipulate you all with it. But then the argument becomes; most guys are douchebags, especially in their teens, 20, even 30s and beyond, so never found one sweet enough to replace the father, so its back to being mens fault

 

Perhaps they did, but I didn't see someone mention that one of the leading opinions on the recent surge is because they want a MAN and not a girl-boy.
Obviously not all, but many millennial young males are not exactly masculine.

 

Thanks for writing all that, it was an interesting read.
My next question for you is. Why are so many men douchebags?