What's up with this girl?

Why are you still playing with her?

You get upset at the games she is playing, and now you're playing them back. Get rid of her, and find someone a little more mature...because it seems like the cute little 20 something is dragging you down to her level.

Or, screw with her all you want. It is your choice after all.

 

so he should leave her and play the same games with an older woman?

 

uggghhhh.

Congrats on turning the tables.
Have you lost sight of why you started this post?

 

It sounds like she's pretty predatory. I've met one of those types of girls before, and she almost caught me in her grasp. But she didn't, I felt too suspicious of her. They make you feel like you're going paranoid and that's one of their tactics.

 

Actually he should grow up and stop playing bs high school games, but seems to be enjoying himself...someone more mature wouldn't put up with it (one would hope anyway) which is why I suggested it.

 

I'm not trying to play any games I actually like this girl and want something serious with her. But good things don't come easy so I'm willing to fight for what could make me happy. I think she may just need to given a lil direction and things could materialize from that. I think she has major trust issues or something but she is opening up a little bit at a time. I don't know what to think to be honest it's a guessing game. Like lastnight as we parted ways she jumped into her car and bailed without saying anything after I told her "take care" but she does that playing around also. I'm constantly kept wondering if she is upset about some little bullshit or not. In time I will work on that also. I have a feeling that she really likes me but doesn't want to show it just yet as that would give me an upper hand. She is very aware that she could just find another guy but I play it off like "hey I could find another girl"

 

The other thing that kind of bothers me is she told me about some guy she "hung out with" for 3 weeks who found out he had an std and told her "I'm glad we didn't do anything" and she was saying "like we ever were going to." that made me wonder why was she was even hanging around with him and if she is doing the same to me. Also she said somemthing else that bothered me we were talking about relationships and things of that nature she made the comment "I'm going to tell that to the next person that I'm with(what ever it was )" I said "that' fucked up" and she responded "no I'm going to say it" I said that it was "fucked up" because it looked like I'm not going to be the last one she is with and she already has plans on getting with somebody in the future. It went right over her head. I just need not get so invested because things could easily go to shit real quik and I don't know if she has any emotional ties to me what so ever.

 

she doesn't.

 

Haha. You deserve everything you get at this point.

 

Here we are 5 or six weeks later. I have been spending lots of time with her and we are now in a bf/gf relationship and to be quite honest I'm in love with her. We have gone on trips and spent days upon days together. There was a problem where we had a fight a week ago and I'm going to meet her today to talk to her about it. I realize that she holds the upperhand and I have a feeling she is gonna fuck me up. Though I express my feelings daily she has simply told me that I'm a great bf. Something about today bothers me and I don't think it's going to go over good. I will keep you all posted,

 

Nothing happened we just hung out and spent the night together was wonderful. I'm not really sure what to make of it though

 

OP deserves to have his penis cut off. Very slowly. With something very dull. Maybe a piece of railroad track. Or an anvil.

 

Just lie down on her doorstep and let her wipe her feet on you when she enters her house. Then apologize for having a dirty shirt. She'll appreciate that.

 

Sums up my thoughts on the matter

 

OP is going to look over this thread in a few years time, when she has long moved on and will feel so, so, so mortified.

 

RED FLAG. I met my ex-fiance on a dating site and when we got serious, I deleted mine, but he kept his because he said he had guy friends on there so I let it go. Then a year later he starts spending less and less time with me (seriously, he said he worked 7 days a week at walmart and pretty much went to sleep when he got home, we would talk via text during his break and MAYBE see each other on friday night to fuck in his car)

So I check up on his profile when he says he was at work and I saw he was online right then. I confronted him and he told me he thought someone hacked it, that he had deleted it. Who the fuck would hack someone else's dating page so they could pick up girls as him? He's not that good looking. I knew he was lying. I broke up with him then and there, sold that ring, and moved the fuck on, and I suggest you do too.

 

i think there's a lot more than one red flag in this thread...

really, he claimed to have guy friends on a dating site? that's just silly.

 

Yeah...he's a moron. And probably a closet gay.

I was a moron to believe it though.

 

.....Well, what did you expect, being set up to get married at 19-ish?

 

Uhh...that maybe it would work out? I wouldn't have wasted my time otherwise. People have gotten married at 19, some have worked and some have not. It's a gamble that I thought I was ready for but I was mistaken.