What's up with this girl?

bro shes not worth the hassel
drop the bitch and find another...theres alot more out there man

 

this is harsh but likely true.

by spying on her you sound desperate and insecure. it will lead to irrationality and it is fairly obvious she cannot be bothered with emotional confrontation.

fuck it, fuck her and go.

 

If a guy treated me the way she treats you, I'd not be giving him the time of day......I'd be moving on!

 

Dude, is she really that hott for you to be doing this, forget her man, there's plenty fishes in the sea :2thumbsup:

Go get laid, you deserve it.

 

So just stop calling? Then in a few days she will call me. Should I just be up front or what or just fucking bail? The sad thing is I had a chnce to take out a really nice girl who would of probably worked out but didn't call her because I was messin with this one. I asked her out 2 weeks ago but never called is it too late to call?

 

She sounds nuts to me

 

.....That's your call.

Either way, stop bending over backwards for girls (OR guys) you don't even know. Be a relaxed, reasonable, rational adult about things, and expect the same from those you involve yourself with.

 

well,, I might not eat her, but Id crack her shell open hammering on her..

 

I think you have a good point I keep overlooking lil acts of disrespect like last night I was texting her and simply wanted to call and wish her a good night but asked if she was too busy. Her answer was she was too busy but I could text her a goodnight. I haven't made contact today and I will see if she comes knocking or just forgets about me I guess. I mean I wanna turn the tables not to use her but to just have her want me so I can negotiate something fair for BOTH of us. Maybe I'm totally fucking naive but I have seen bad ones break before also I have been in control of things with others who turned it around and really made me chase. After all we are human and want what we can't have right?

 

To make a comparison she is as hot as groovychick which is a totaly compliment groovychick!

 

Wow, she's got you dancing to her tune alright.

She's probably bragging to some other dude about how much of a twat-fool you are and how she plays you over and over again. Gods..she probably laughed so hard at that earnest conversation you had.

Everybody's being real nice here and you probably are a nice guy who doesn't deserve this crap but I think this needs to be said:

WAKE THE FUCK UP! YOU'RE BEING USED LIKE A TOOL.
GRAB A PAIR OF BALLS AND SOME SELF RESPECT AND MOVE ON.


Pussy is good, but it ain't so good to have to put up with being used and played.

 

What he said.

I mean, yes, it WOULD be possible to turn things around.... Not to sound too uppity, but I think I could, in a few weeks of texting, but I tend to be something of a womanizer from behind a keyboard, when I can't pass a joint to a girl without blushing in real life.

But you just obviously can't do it.

You've got an attitude where you seem ready to work with any conditions she gives you..... you asked her if you could call to say good night, and she made fun of you...

Respect is for good people that deserve it, or friends, or people you already know/trust, or even people you don't know at all yet. But she's shown you she shouldn't have excessive respect or baby-ing, she'll take the ball and run with it.

If you really want to keep wasting your time with this, the only way you stand a chance is if you grab your balls and some aggression. Don't text her and ask if you can call her to say good night, call her and ask if you can stick it in her ass to say good night

 

The disappearing thing really makes me suspect she has a boyfriend, that and her not wanting to kiss you or anything, she could toying with the idea of cheating on him, so she's keeping you secret from each other.

 

LEAVE HER ALONE.

Simple.

 

Ok what would you do to turn shit around? I think you are blunt but you have a point. Give me some shit to do....Thank all of you for your help!

 

When I'm having a rough day I read this! No matter how bad it makes me crack a smile and let out a deep laugh and sometimes that's all one needs-thanks evil one who ever you may be!

 

You quoted that whole big thing of Roo's and what you got from it was "How do I turn things around, then?"

I'm thinking you're getting what you deserve at this point.
This girl certainly can pick a desperate sucker out of a crowd.

 

^^^

On the money.

 

Tell her to fuck off, she is making an ass out of you. You are totally wasting your time with her.Like RooR said dont text to see if you can call her, text to see if she will give you a goodnight blowjob, remember the ears.:bigear:

 

First off I want to thank all of you good people for your helpful advice! I have suceeded in turning the tables and here is what I did. I did what the cult leaders do it's called "love bombing" where you give a lot of attention and then I disapeared out of sight for 2 days. She ended up texting me wanting to spend time with me. I just started being a sarcastic dick but not so much of a dick it turned her off. Like if she said "I have an hour to spend" I said "I'll bring my stopwatch" and that turned the tables. It's funny but sometimes it's sooooo simple now we are cool it seems until I ned to lay my goon hand down again.