What's up with this girl?

Start acting macho and aloof, ya know be smooth too, act like you don't even want her. If she feels like she is dominant, and enjoys hurting guys, than all you gotta do is not react to her games. This way she'll either let you bang her, or just leave you, in which case you can move on from that gurl.

 

I think you are right IsterMudz I should just quit texting so much and calling. Not respond so fast to her calls either. play little games that she plays. After all we want what we can't have right?

 

that sounds less like a confrontation and more like an invitation (which she accepted) to keep playing games.

 

I would totally just bail out on this girl if I didn't like her so much. I mean we share a lot of the same ideas and have a good time plus like I wote befor she is young and hot. Fuck man this sucks!

 

idk man.
My interpretation of "cause most will just lie" is
'I am lying' or 'I will lie'.

She definitely seems to have a change in attitude.
Question is, which attitude is the sincere one.

 

I think maybe pull back and show less interest and start dating other women. This is just asking to be hurt I think. Then I will talk with her and get sucked back in. I also think as somebody said it's a total power trip. Like she can talk about sex in a way that she finds ok but anything that I even mention about anything sexual she shuts me down and gets pissy about it.

 

She fancies herself a manipulator.

Probably past trauma or something, or simply bored and sick. Either way, she's fucking with you, don't let it work. Get the fuck out of there. If you just want a phsyical relationship, lay down how it's gunna be, if she doesn't like it she can leave. An involved, emotional relationship with her sounds like a really bad idea.

 

ears ... pull them. , pull them hard..

 

Tho other thing is this girl is really smart and into phycology so if that means anything?

 

Yes, it does:

 

No it doesn't she's still a sadistic nut job.

 

Is there anyway to turn the tables and regain control and respect that wouldn't get me thrown in jail-lol

 

You never had any control or respect.

Her intent was to make you her emotional bitch from the start, that's why she's on that website.

 

I agree that you never had control or respect.
But IMO it can be gained. IDK either one of you so I won't even try and speculate how to gain them. But off the top of my head, I would think that some level of conflict would be involved.

I still feel you should let this one go. There are plenty of young hot women who have a good head on their shoulders and are looking to just have a good time.

She's an adult, as long as you aren't violent, the law need not be a concern.
Which of course says nothing about a possibility of her getting violent.

 

I agree with both of you there is something defintely wrong with this picture...It's a fucking trip

 

NO, you will get her attention, or she will become jealous,. Its not a game, its reality buddy. Everygirl wants to feel wanted.

 

So I should go back on the dating website? I have been stayin off. Also yesterday I texted her in the morning at 10 am a good morning she didn't get back til 4:16 with a "good late afternoon" We texted here and there but she always waits a few minutes sometimes up to 45 minutes or more to respond to me. At night I told her I was going to bed and could I call and say goodnite if she wasn't busy. She told me she was busy but I could text her if I wanted to. What should I do?

 

The reason I have been staying off that site is so she doesn't see me on and try and call me on it. However in the past week when she wasn't talking to me she is on it several times a day. The other night she told me she had to go because she had to hang up some clothes to dry and head to bed this was like at either 11 or 12:30 but records show she was online as late as 3:47 in the am so either she was online or she was checking her mail because of insomnia I'm not sure. To me it looks like she is still looking. I know sometimes it's a thrilll just to see others want you but something is naggin me about this.

 

what you need to do is stop caring so much. you only like her because she's hot, she has not other redeeming qualities. either you'll get to fuck her, or, more likely, you won't. no big deal either way. obsessing about it will do nothing but hurt your already almost non-existent chances with her.