What's up with guys who say, "Who needs a hand job when I can wank it myself?"

Discussion in 'Genitalia' started by Fueled by Coffee, Oct 4, 2013.

  1. 6-eyed shaman

    6-eyed shaman Sock-eye salmon

    I've heard lots of men say this sort of thing. And I totally disagree.

    Yeah, it's true any man knows how to jerk himself best. And I will agree that most women may not be very good at it, and have to develop a skill for it. But I would rather take a bad and unskilled hand job from a woman, than have a good jerk off time to myself.

    A woman's touch down there is so much more intimate, and it can be a great activity for personal bonding. Although it seems many women don't have strong enough hands to grip as tight as I'd like, just feeling the soft skin of her feminine hands sliding up and down your shaft definitely makes up for it. Plus it helps having her with you to flirt and talk dirty, as she's working your most personal areas. That is one advantage hand jobs have over blow jobs; no girl can talk with a dick in her mouth.

    I really love getting hand jobs. If she's really good at it she can take control over my whole body.

    So if anyone here doesn't like them, please explain to me why.
     
  2. mted

    mted Member

    I always have a hand, but when I have a girl around, I would much rather make use of one of her 3 holes instead. I don't really see the point in handjobs alone, but mouth and hand can complement one another very well when done properly. Now that's what actually feels good if she is good at it.

    And I think a woman's touch can easily be too harsh, as most women won't realise how sensitive penises actually are compared to vaginas. It's true that I would rather wank myself, I'm not someone who can cum easily from just any kind of aimless touching; on the contrary I will have a hard time cumming if she manages to hurt my equipment somehow.
     
  3. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    I enjoy it better when my wife gives me a hand job - I usually either have to ask or show her I want one. She wont stroke my penis unless I tell her or put her hand on it to indicate what I want.
     
  4. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    Personal masturbation is always going to far more intense, as you're the only one who can tell just what you need & can make immediate adjustments accordingly. No woman (or man) can possibly account for this, so the physical stimulation will never be as good. However, a major part of any sexual activity is from mental stimulation (even if it's only watching porn while you masturbate), so the psychological side of things can add a great deal to whether you would rather masturbate alone or have someone do it for you.
     
  5. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

    I've never had a handjob. Always thought that was kind of a jr high thing
     
  6. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    Either part of foreplay, or as an option when your partner's not up to full sex / time of month, etc.
     
  7. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

    Handjobs have a time and a place. I got one in my car recently, and it did the job (no pun intended). It was just a little messier than I wished, being in my car. Of course it doesn't feel as nice as a blowjob, but if the girl uses some of her saliva to get it nice and slobbered up, it feels a lot better.
     
  8. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

    Sure my dicks been yanked as a part of foreplay. But I wouldn't really call it a handjob (or a blowjob) unless the job[\i]was finished. Otherwise it's a warmup. Ive never had a complete hj, and have only had two girls who would give me complete bjs.


    Edit: I take that back. When I turned 18 an older coworker friend of mine took me to seedy massage parlor and bought me a rub n tug. I had forgotten all about that lol.

    So to answer the op, of course it was better than masturbation....there was a naked Asian woman with her pretty pussy in face. If I had that option Every time I wanted to jerk it I'd never do it solo. But to be honest it just left me wanting more. When I left I felt like I had just left the strip club after a few private dances. All wound up and nothing to fuck.
     
  9. 20Stoney

    20Stoney Member

    I'll take a handjob over masturbation any day. One thing the handjob has going for it, is you don't know what she is going to do next. (hopefully she changes things up and doesn't just yank away) A good handjob from someone who has a clue is a great thing!
     
  10. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

    Like any sexual act the more someone does it the better they get at it! My lady has spent the time to become quite good at it and I will take her hand over mine any day. It is just one more sexual act we can share together.
     
  11. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    You guys! lol
     
  12. Ice_Cool

    Ice_Cool Member

    I strongly agree with you mate. I LOVE getting hand jobs from girls. I usually have it when I go for a massage (with a massause). Once I got a hooker just to give me a hand job.

    Ofourse the touch of a woman is different that is her flesh (hand) around your cock. Sometimes I mix it up with foot want or leg or hip wank.

    Today with all the STD who can enjoy sex with a hooker without having regrets and worry of getting an incurable disease?!!!!! So Hand job and Foot Job is the answer. This is the safest sex act you can make, even safer than kissing, it is almost impossible to get any serious STD with this (in fact if you are carefull and you know what tyo do and no fluid is exchanged then it is absolute zero risk).

    Only do the nasty stuff analingus and real sex with a girl that you know very well. Otherwise for a one night stand or anything else, take my advise from it; IT IS NOT WORTH IT. (it would have been fine if we were living back then and perhaps till the 70's or early 80's but not today)

    It also feels great when you explode your cum in fornt og another girl, and one girl who was giving me a penis massage told me that she would like to see me to me cumming.

    YES...GO HAND JOB GO GO HAND JOB GO....
     
  13. Ice_Cool

    Ice_Cool Member

    I strongly agree with you mate. I LOVE getting hand jobs from girls. I usually have it when I go for a massage (with a massause). Once I got a hooker just to give me a hand job.

    Ofourse the touch of a woman is different that is her flesh (hand) around your cock. Sometimes I mix it up with foot want or leg or hip wank.

    Today with all the STD who can enjoy sex with a hooker without having regrets and worry of getting an incurable disease?!!!!! So Hand job and Foot Job is the answer. This is the safest sex act you can make, even safer than kissing, it is almost impossible to get any serious STD with this (in fact if you are carefull and you know what tyo do and no fluid is exchanged then it is absolute zero risk).

    Only do the nasty stuff analingus and real sex with a girl that you know very well. Otherwise for a one night stand or anything else, take my advise from it; IT IS NOT WORTH IT. (it would have been fine if we were living back then and perhaps till the 70's or early 80's but not today)

    It also feels great when you explode your cum in fornt og another girl, and one girl who was giving me a penis massage told me that she would like to see me to me cumming.

    YES...GO HAND JOB GO GO HAND JOB GO....
     
  14. I used to say this when i was 14.
     
  15. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    Just imagine getting a verruca on your penis.
     
  16. Rholder1975

    Rholder1975 Guest

    I have had some, but know one touches me better down there than I do
     

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