What's the worst...

wow. thats evil. you might as well wrote rape me in permanent marker across her body. we have alot of (crazy) homeless people in the woods here, you'd mostly end up dead if someone pulled a stunt like that on you here.

I think the meanest thing I ever did was talk shit to other people about the person, nothing I ever made up, I usually had plenty of material to work on

 

end of freshman year: drank 18-20 (last few shots are fuzzy) shots of straight tequilla..no lime no salt, no chaser, none of that shit, just tequilla! Still remember it was El toro tequilla too. Did those 18 or 20 shots in ..ohhh..about 90 minutes. stumbled into my gfs (my first gf) room and climbed into her bed like i always do and threw up all over her bed and down the wall. than somehow ended up on the ground and passed out, where she stayed up until 4 watching my ass and cleaning my mess. It was a totally douche bag thing of me to do and I have matured a lot over the course of three relationships. I am currently in my fourth.

Going back to that first gf, I use to leave her alone all the time to chill with friends, and sometimes drink. she never wanted to do anything so it was her fault. didn't have to drink, just chill with my buddies and other girl friends! Its college, drink a little, meet new people and let loose, geez, you've only got 4 short years before you have to get serious!

 

Divorce.


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its a girl and shes from my husband... the same guy whos adopting my boys...we see them all as his childern as well. Hes been there in their lives longer and more then the man who is supposed to be their father (he doesn't want to be).

 

wow. hitting bad. usually better to break up before it escalates to that.

leaving woman naked at lake bad, too. what if she had gotten kidnapped, raped, killed? that's fucked up, dude. i'm sorry, but the 20-year-olds who egged you on should (if they haven't already) seek professional help. that's something sociopaths do. futhermore, you shouldn't blame their influence on your behavior at the time; 14 is young, but old enough to know better. accountability is your friend; you should be a man and own up to your mistakes. i hope you got in lots and lots and lots of trouble for leaving that poor girl naked and alone at the lake - you put her LIFE in danger for fuck's sake! that is not funny. that is not a joke. that is not revenge. that is just fucked up...if you didn't get in trouble, i hope your karmic backlash has been huge or that you have at least learned that doing something like that is never, EVER okay, EVER. if you didn't learn anything from those things, you need help and shouldn't be around other people because you're dangerous. but if you have indeed learned from those mistakes and would not repeat them, or at least take steps to not endanger another human being, then i applaud you. still, i get shivers and feel really creepy when i think of what you did. it's DESPICABLE! that girl is someone's daughter, someone's sister, someone's friend, and you didn't think at ALL what could possibly happen to her - you just wanted to make a joke and impress other people. WHAT the fuck?

 

yeah, i wouldn't call that evil or anything...you just wanted to not act like a housebound old person, and there's nothing wrong with that. it seems as though you invited her to go out and she often said no, so that's totally not your fault. she declined going out with you or her friends, and probably pulled that "i'm sad because you're going away without me" crap. gah! i dated a guy like that for awhile. never wanted to do anything and got jealous when i was like, "well you can stay here and watch TV or you can come with me, but i'm going to go out." very frustrating. it was only one of the many reasons we didn't end up having a very long relationship.

 

I did a lot of drugs when we dated and one night I went home with a different guy right in front of him. I left him at my house with my crazy roommate who also took many drugs and he said he laid in my bed crying. The next morning, he went to find me at the house my roommate said I was at and I was in bed with a different guy than the one I went home with that night. I didn't have sex with any of them, but I never got a chance to talk to him about it because we broke up then and there. I ran into him last weekened and he said, "did you got to rehab yet." We had a nice conversation though, maybe it was a closure type thing. I tortured that boyfriend a lot too. Poor guy.

 

hmmm i'm 20 turning 21 but i've never had a real intense relationship. however i was seeing a guy last year and i didn't know he thought what we had was serious and made out with another guy in front of him at a party.
i felt pretty bad when i found out the guy i was seeing was in love with me. we're not friends anymore and i miss him but such is life.

 

Cheated (only once though), that the worst thing I can think of.

 

I was 14 and full of myself and hanging with borderline sociopaths. We did a lot of bad things. Cut me some slack, and don`t tell me you`ve never gotten carried away with things.

Would I do anything even close to that now? No.
Would I take it back, well probably. But that`s life.

 

i've never gotten carried away to the point of endangering the safety or life of someone else. my youthful indiscretion for the sake of revenge: i've TP'ed houses, egged cars, and made derogatory flyers and distributed them around the school. these things are not nice things to do and i wouldn't do any of this stuff as an adult, but i made the choice to do the things i did and take full accountability for them. even though there may have been some level of peer pressure, no one was twisting my arm. i did it of my own volition. and i never endangered anyone's safety. TP can be picked up, eggs wiped off (although a new paint job can hurt one's wallet pretty bad..hehe), and flyers ripped down and destroyed. i'm not saying that the things i did were right. i actually felt pretty horrible about the flyers and ended up apologizing to the person who was the subject of them in a letter to the editor of the school paper, because it was a petty thing to do. i never got caught doing the vandalism stuff, but i know that it was a shitty thing to do and it's no one's fault but my own.

it does show that with age you've learned that it was a bad thing to do, so that's good. however, it's a very grown-up thing to take full responsibility and accountability for what you choose to do. unless the kids you were running with were holding a gun to your temple and commanding that you to take the clothes and take off with them, you really can't blame them for your own actions, even if you were very young. their influence may have been strong, but you could have chosen not to cave in to it. that's just my opinion on that issue.

i just hope the girl turned out okay and that nothing bad happened to her. sounds like a pretty scary situation to be in - i know had i been her, i would have been freaking the fuck out. how traumatizing that had to be for her...