whats the hardest part about being a chick

I love being a girl for the most part. I even love periods; they're a big pain in the ass but they also make me feel healthy and fertile. I've never given birth but i have a feeling i'll love that too. I think its awesome that women can withstand pain like that..it makes us so much more hardcore than the fellas

The only thing I hate is the fact that there are still men out there who look at women and don't see intelligience, warmth, emotions...all they see is sex. i hate being hit on by guys like that. that is all.

 

I really hate that I'm associated with the pains in the ass that make women look bad. I hate that I get lumped in with the group of vindictive whores who live to make men miserable. I hate that guys feel uncomfortable around me for fear of being pinned with sexual harassment or something similar. I hate that people look at me like I've put our gender back hundreds of years when I say that I really would rather a man be in charge of most the shit that effects me. And I also hate that I can't piss on trees or stroke my own cock. I have penis envy.

 

why exactly would you rather a man be in charge of everything?

 

I love everything about being a girl.

..except maybe the way guys look at me like a sex object, because it's very degrading and I'd rather someone look at my face when they make love to me instead of my body.

 

Oh, and I'm also not looking forward to childbirth.

 

I didn't say everything and really, I'd rather not get into it over a public forum in which I know I will be widely disagreed with. I'm just not a feminist by any means.

 

To me, that is part of feminism... you are allowed to not be a feminist if you don't want to be one Seriously though, I am cool with someone feeling however they want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. So I like that you stated your opinion even if people don't like it

I have to say that I think the childbirth part sucks it real bad and I don't want to go through with it. Luckily I don't want kids so I'll probably be ok.

 

For me, I just live my life to suit myself . .I am married to a wonderful man and have been for 25 years .I have a 22 yr old son .I am a nurturer and I love taking care of everyone and being the heart of my family .I love my friends and family and that's pretty much what I focus on .It doesn't suck at all to be a woman to me . I am comfortable with who and what I am .

 

Uh, I don't know.
I'm not going to lie, I think being a woman is easier in almost every aspect, except when it comes to career and jobs. Unfortunately, women are still paid less and have slimmer chances at competitive residencies ( I'm talking about medicine, don't really know or care about other fields ).

But at least we get to wear real pretty clothes and we smell nicer. Oh and if there's only one seat left and you and a guy are both standing, he's always going to let you sit. I do love gentlemen :svengo:
Plus it's not weird if you don't know how to change a lightbulb ( which I still don't do ) or whatever, or if you can't carry something really heavy.

Also, we're not expected to be all strong, independent and tough. But if we are, we're mostly likely going to be applauded for being so brave, cool, unytpical and unconventional....which is something you can't really say for those men who are far from what men should typically be.

 

Changing a lightbulb is probably the easiest task in the entire world.

 

The worst part of being a girl is having to deal with men like me.

 

Oh :blush5:
You are my idol.

 

Except if you visit the southern hemisphere, then you have to screw them in counterclockwise

 

arghgbn my head.

 

Yes, actually! I have. So nerr.

 

For me, the worst part of being a "chick" =P is polycystic ovarian disease. In other words, a constant period.

Everything else is pretty standard. I'm just a human, dealing with the regular bullshit everyone else deals with.

 

^ that

and for me, emotions. if my hearts broken, or i do something stupid to a good person, I feel constant pain.

 

Don't we all?

 

Exactly! If men are honest they will admit that they feel just as much emotional pain as women. For some reason, women seem to want to have a monopoly on heartbreak and men want to deny that they have feelings. It's very odd.

 

My thoughts exactly! Having a heart has side-effects for us all.

You're so wise. I can't rep you at the mo! I need to spread some love around first