whats the hardest part about being a chick

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Being a woman is fucking AWESOME, I'm so happy I was born female. I actually love my period so that's not an issue for me and I've never given birth just yet...but everything about being female is awesome to me.

Women might have to prove themselves in certain career fields and do twice as good as men just to get in the door...that could be one of the harder things...not being taken seriously in the workplace.

 

I would say being separate from those girls that only care about themselves and their looks.
These days alot of girls have too much introspection,and doing anything for attention.

 

It depends on whether you mean socially or biologically.

Biologically, I would say women have it harder. Menstrual cramps may not be as bad as being kicked in the nuts, but they last for a week. Also, birth?! Aw hell! No one will ever be able to make me pop a human being out of my pelvis. Noooo thanks. Also we can't pee standing up, which is SO INCONVENIENT. Socially, I would say it's about equal, since women are pretty much equal to men now, even though there's still rape and things, and men have a lot of issues that no one really acknowledges, like the repression of emotions and bullying and homophobia. I personally however wish every day that I was born with a penis.

You can argue all you want, but please bear in mind that there is a big difference between biological and social.

 

i dont like it how when im with a group of girls and they start with the bitching, or about there fat and shit like that. i hate it. but all girls are different. and as the girls i know get older they are starting to stop all that stuff.

 

Maybe this is how it used to be, but it doesn't seem like this anymore. Maybe if you are a very homely or overweight girl, this might apply to you. On the other hand, if you are attractive you'll have a much easier time of finding a job and you most likely won't have to do as much work to keep it.

An example of this is a girl I graduated college with. She was the only girl in my major, and the rest were nerdy guys. She was also very attractive, and because of this she hardly would do any work (much of the course work was done in groups). Despite the fact that she was really lazy, the instructors loved her and so did my classmates. She graduated at the same time I did and probably at best did one third of the work I completed.

 

You're actually helping to make the point in the fact the world often doesn't take women as seriously and often willing to put more credit into how she looks than her actual achievements.

I.e. If a guy gets a promotion at a big company to be CEO, well than no one questions it, he's just a shrewd evil businessman. Women gets it though, it's because she's attractive, or bar that it's "pft, who'd she sleep with to get that"

 

I seriously would not care what it took to get me a good job making a lot of money.. big deal, people don't take you seriously enough..

 

I worked with a girl a few years back the managers wouldn't fire because she 'encouraged customers' because of her looks. She was fuck awful at her job, did next to nothing and knew what the deal was.

And no, not all the managers were men, so it wasn't a perving issue.


I worked harder than her, and no one gave a shit.

 

If women have a problem with this attention to detail and their looks being apparent in the work place- stop making yourselves up for clearly a longer period of time than most men!

It's just enticing opinion

 

what i find laughable is men discussing what it's like to be a woman.

 

That's fair enough

but all you girls are doing the same thing. HOW do you know, if we don't, that it's harder to be a girl?

Have you been a bloke at any point in time..?


No one has the answer. It's girls trying to insist harder things on themselves and guys saying we have it tough too. That's what's quite laughable, no woman can admit things are just the same for whatever sex.

No bloke is saying it have it harder here, are we?

 

That's because you don't!

 

We do!

I am not a bastard. But let's just say this

- women believe, because I am a man, I am sexist
- coloured people believe I am a racist
- minority groups (like gay people, for example), believe I am a homophobic bastard or whatever else.

I have been a victim to all of this. I was called a racist for asking about immigration in a politics class, I was called a homophobe because I asked a turned down a gay man and I have been called basically a sexist on this website

This isn't an easy existence, and the blame is not ours. This sort of abuse was common sorts like 100 years ago, but it's not now and people need to accept equality.

 

I bet the hardest part is taking the needless shit they talk about seriously

 

I would have thought this would have been down to something you jhad done personally rather than you being male

And ok,
- Periods
- physical pains and emotions related to periods
- Being expected to shave every part of our bodies.
- Being expected to wear make up and pluck out the few remaining hairs on our bodies.
- Being made to feel ugly if we are not a size 10.
- Still having to fight for equality at work.
- Childbirth (had to mention that one )
- Breast feeding.
- Stretch marks.

Any more you would like?

 

Most women can't claim being a bloke, but every transwoman has had the benefit/unfortunate experience of having lived and been socialized as a male first before becoming female and vice versa for transmen and they'll near all vouch for the fact the patriarchy is alive and well.

 

I have never done anything personal to anybody for reasons like that!

But yeah, here we go

- baldness
- if there's a fight, your truly is in there getting his head kicked in on his ladies behalf
- we don't want to dress like women, but condemned if we did. Even looking nice is 'gay'.
- wishing there was equality in work. We do in fires, on the front line etc
- we have to 'court' women...
- but don't open a door for them, because you're a sexist. but if you don't you are too
- ball pain. Child birth is a rarity. Being kicked in the balls can be a frequent affair. My ex loved doing it to me!
- men are rapists. Women aren't
- we have to pay on dates, it's rude not to?
- boners are embarrassing
- being made to feel ugly if you're fat, also
- and this one is weird, but hear me out. For all you women who complain about childbirth (you know, giving birth to another human being), instead of seeing the nice side, there's a lot of moans. I think if a guy had a chance, many would probably have kids and take the burden on themselves. Mother/father nature was sexist by not giving the choice, if all girls are going to do is complain!

Heck, even on this site I think it's a little sexist. I noticed in the gay section anyone can post in there, including lesbians, but men (not even the gay ones) are allowed to post in their own part. That is double standards!!

 

If women sleep with a man on the first date we will get called a slut - you on the other hand will probably get a high five!

What I hate is when someone goes through a door, knows you are behind them, but they still, rather than show some manners, let the door hit you in the face

Boobs hurt too you know. Especially when it's cold! And if they are too big, they can hurt your back, and they make clothes fit awkwardly - I could go on!

Because of this 'men should look after their lady while she stays home and has children but, not go out and earn her own money' crap

You would want the chance of having a melon pushed through something the size of a grape Really?? Then nine months of being uncomfortable, having strange cravings, being kicked, running to the loo every five minutes, taking ten minutes to try and get out of a chair?

Yeah true, but I haven't noticed posts being deleted or any fuss over it. Besides the sanctuary is supposed to be for Christians only, but that has many others posting in it.

 

We are all the same, pure and simple. Women can't get past this typical 'type' of man, and they are few and far between these days.

I have no problem agreeing with girls about this. I just have a problem with the feminist type that will argue against equal measures. The one who will say that women are better than men, or women deserve to be treated better than men- those people are hypocrites

because it proved that they didn't believe the way they were treated was wrong, they just believed that it was happening to the wrong gender.