What's all the fuss about anal?

Why do dudes wanna try anal so bad? What's the pleasure out of it?

 

For me there are two aspects to anal sex with my transgender girlfriend, the mental and the physical.

When I used to fuck cisgender women, I always loved fucking them in the ass. For me it was more intimate and more vulnerable for a woman to give up her ass. I always felt that I truly owned a woman that I was ass fucking.

Now that I am the one being fucked, I know what it is to submit so completely to another person that you are going to let them use your most private hole. When I give my girlfriend my ass, it’s hers. She sticks her cock in and fucks until she cums without thinking about me or my pleasure. I love it that she selfishly uses my hole as a cum dumpster for her big cock. In that moment I am her bitch to use as she pleases.

The physical part of being fucked is feeling your rectum being filled by a big throbbing cock. My whole consciousness is focused on my tiny hole and her hard cock stretching and thrusting in my hole. Nothing else exists except that and it feels incredible. When she is fucking my asshole, I literally want her to fuck my ass off - just jackhammer into it until she has bored into the center of my being. Until there’s nothing left except her pumping orgasm and her sperm deep in my bowels. Then I know that I have been truly fucked by my woman.

 

Beats me! I doesn’t interest me!

 

Just the intimacy is the turn on pretty much?

 

That’s one part of it. I will look at my girlfriend and think, wow she has had her cock up my ass. Who can say that about someone else?

The other part of it is the physical feeling of taking cock especially a big cock up your ass. It is like nothing else and once you have done it, you want it all the time. I would live with my girlfriend’s cock up my ass 24x7.

 

for a guy.....a hard cock rubbing on his prostate.....and the sheer pleasure out of being taken n used and giving your partner pleasure.

Simon

 

I think that it is the sheer taboo of it thats a bit of a thrill. Its not a big fave of mine. I did it once with a girl many years ago, and somehow I just slid it in there, it wasnt something we were going to do. I said after, that was my first time, and she said me too! We didnt do it again as it was not very satisfying.
Years later my 2nd wife went through a phase of wanting it so I would of course oblige. It was actually quite hot when I would have my cock up her ass and then a finger inside her vagina and being able to feel my cock through the wall.
My present GF has no interest in it at all, wont even let me rim her. However, pretty much everything else goes, so thats cool. I dont miss it.

 

Guys like it for a lot of reasons I think. Most will say it's because it's tight, it physically feels better which may be true but in my experience its much more psychological. There's a lot of power play in anal sex, a lot of trust, plus the taboo aspect. For me it's totally psychological. It's a very intimate kind of surrender, like the ultimate way to give myself up for his pleasure. If that makes sense? It's also a buzz to know I'm giving him something that a lot of girls wouldn't dream of doing, and that feels really good.

 

That's probably the best explanation lmao!

 

Tighter than pussy. Hearing my wife moan from the pleasure she gets that she never got from vaginal. Neither one of us enjoys vaginal now.

 

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How tight are we talking now? Like describe the sensation.

 

How tight? Tighter than the tightest pussy you have ever had. For example, even if you are not super hard, you can still get your cock in a pussy. With an anus, that doesn’t work - you gotta have a really hard cock to push into that little puckered button and open up that ass to let your cock in. Then when you are getting in, the sphincter muscle is gripping your cock until you push past into the nice soft rectum. Then you know that you are in heaven and you are going blow a load so hard you will feel like you are pissing into that bitch’s ass!

 

Of course when my girlfriend is fucking my ass, I am that bitch! And loving every minute of it!

 

Very vivid lmao. Thanks!

 

When I'm with another man I am very submissive, I am with him to provide him sexual pleasure so I submissively give up my entire body to him. When he enters my ass I am totally his and he knows it as he hears me telling him to fuck my ass. Feeling his throbbing cock deep inside my ass sends me into a different dimension. I've given him something many others dare not to give up. For many decades I held onto my anal virginity as I was focusing on the pleasures of sucking cock until not too long ago my wife suggested I let him fuck me in the ass being she had pegged me a number of times. I was hooked once I felt his cock inside me. I had no idea how good it was going feel, he took me doggie style as I began forcing my ass backwards to each of his forward thrusts, my eyes rolled back in my head as I repeatedly said "fuck me"..."fuck me"..."fuck me"...and after about 30 minutes I feel him drive balls deep and unload his cum inside me...the warmth of his cum was amazing as he continued to pound his cock deep inside me until he went soft. I love being fucked in the ass as my prostate get's a work out.

 

You had sex with a man, but you're married to a woman?

 

Its all part of exploring sexuality. From my own experience it is the best sex ever. Watch the facial expressions on the girls on a fuck flick when they are getting back doored. They are in ecstasy. Try it you will love it.

 

I'm bi-sexual and my wife supports my sexuality. My wife and I share our sex lives with him and his wife.

 

Interesting. Did it hurt at all for you?