What would your wife think?

After a night of heavy drinking I let my straight wife know that I had a few I fantasies including wanting to give a blow job. The next morning she asked me if I was honest … and I figured wth, the cat is out of the bag now so I doubled down and admitted it without hesitation. She didn’t get weirded out but to this day she has never brought it up again.

 

Yes you were...I hope it all works out.

 

Hot

 

Sexy...similar ish, told wife I had seen her friends panties up her skirt one time and I had masturbated....a week later She pulled out her friends panties as I was fucking her...was smelling her friends pussy on her panties as I fuckeded her...what made me cum hard was when she took them from me and started smelling them then licked the gusset

 

My wife would think I should get back out there, find another wild woman. I just might.

I have considered an online dating site and just put it all out there, bisexuality and everything,
talk about opening a can of worms.

On the other hand...

 

My wife raised Catholic, Catholic schools and all. Mentioned my first encounter with a man prior to meeting her. She could hardly disguise her revulsion. She’s come to accept the LBGBT lifestyle and has many friends in her work from those communities. But she continues to be stifled by monogamy.
So I’ve learned it’s better to compartmentalize my life to remain married to her. She’s the true love of my life and best friend. It’s sad I can’t share all of who I am.

 

so did you ever do it?

 

my wife would divorce me

 

I honestly don't know what my wife would do. She's not that bothered about sex and if she felt confident I wouldn't leave her for another guy (which I never would) I suspect she'd eventually be ok with it, but probably she'd stop having sex with me. She's not homophobic but has told me she finds the idea of men having anal sex repulsive - little does she know I am a bottom who loves receiving anal. At times I'm thinking it might be worth coming out to her and begin allowed to live out my sexual desires, even if it meant no more sex with her, but the idea of never having sex with a woman again is a bit daunting. Above all, though, I'd be worried it would break up our marriage eventually, and I don't want to do that - I love her, it's just I enjoy sex with guys.

 

I don't think my wife would divorce me if I express a desire since she know that my friends and I "experimented" when I was young, but she might if she knew that I still act on my desires now.

 

My wife enjoys my crossdressing (I am 5-10, 160, size 8), and my erotic dancing for her pleasure… (even once while fellating her dildo).
She knows that I have very few inhibitions and that I am bi-open, so she would probably be cool with it.
I am continuing to take it slow though, so as not to come across as TOO interested in enjoying real male anatomy. I would like for to suggest it.

 

In my case my wife has been very understanding. I think it all depends on how you handle the conversation with your wife on this topic, as well as understanding her position on the subject. It's about being respectful of both points of view and coming to some consensus.

 

Fellows:

One of these reasons I never married (I'm 64) was to avoid a lot of grief and troubles in the long run.

In fact, strangely enough, I more and less admitting to myself as of late that only reason I had "flings" with women in the past, was because I thought that, at least, if I had sex with women (some of the time) that, somehow, my tastes for men wouldn't seem so "warped", at least in the views of society.

Lesbians having sex never interested me in the least; even when I jacked to bi porn, it had to be that the MAN was bi, NOT the woman.

The older I get, the more I realize that, even though I've admitted to others that I prefer men over women, that, not only I was not being TOTALLY honest with myself, but also, with others.

Though I've only been a member of this forum for less than a week, reading the experiences of other men like myself have truly helped me be even more honest with MYSELF.

There are many things I would do differently, if i could go back in time.

All i can do today is to take one quiet day at a time, which is just about my speed......

Regards,

John

 

Doesn't really matter, seems you knew you wanted men and have experienced this. Sleeping with women along the way is fine, no-one got hurt.
Maybe you are just gay.
I'm straight married but would like to explore but it's not an option.
Lesbians are a turn on but I would also like to suck a cock for the experience.
We are all different, your desires are more focused on men. There are many here like that.

 

SpankedMale64 gains no credibility with me as many posts have been posted beyond a user just discovering it. Most of the posts are IMHO disgusting to put it mildly. Most likely an individual none of us here should respond to if in fact it is an actual person.

 

Truly sorry if I have offend you or anyone else here.

That certainly was NOT my intention.

Again, my apologies.

John

 

instant divorce

 

You won't know unless it happens..........!

 

Yeah, probably won't happen.

Sitting in a motel on work business, naked and you lot are on the other side of the world

 

My girlfriend wouldnt share me with anyone. Which is a shame in one way and a relief in another. I would hate to be upstaged by another guy who could make my girl cum better than i can.