Guys my wife would divorce me in a heartbeat if she found out I want a man or a couple of them with a thick long cock to fuck the living shit out of me!!!!
My wife is in no way homophobic but has said she finds the idea of anal sex between guys a turn-off. So I'm pretty sure she'd freak if she knew that I was a secret bottom, however I will never take my chances and tell her, I'd rather not be with other guys at all.
CuriousMWM: I can feel your frustration. It is my guess that most wives are like yours and would not accept your M2M desires.
So last night we were watching some travel show about the Greek islands and my wife said something like isn't there an Island which is really popular with gay people, and I replied, you mean Mykonos? She asked me, how come you're so knowledgeable about that, kind of tongue in cheek, but I couldn't help getting the feeling that she suspects something.. Almost thought of confessing that I'm bi. Maybe she wouldn't be so averse to it, after all she's pretty much lost interest in sex so she might be quite happy for me to find it elsewhere..
MM50: I suggest you let that one play out a little more from her before you say something you can't take back.
Definitely, it's just that it's not the first time she's sort of hinted that she might suspect something. But I'm not planning on telling her anything unless she were to ask me directly, even then not sure what I'd tell her tbh
My current girlfriend of 7 years would leave me immediately.I do love her and we are best friends and our sex life is ok but I still get urges to get taken by a man and even booked a massage with a hot gay masseuse (try to defend it in my head that it was just a massage ) but I knew in my heart it wasn’t and it was about a man naked with his hands on my naked body hopefully leading to other things so I canceled morning of.You guys that have understanding wife’s are the lucky ones for they accept you for who u truly are and to be honest I’m a bit jealous
My advice is make it all about her , get her on her back with a hot one , and join in orally at first.
my wife struggled with it. tolerated me, even though I did not want to be "tolerated". but, she was also under the impression that I was not going to be with anyone else. I think she assumed that her lack of desire for sex must be the same for me. Such as sweet woman but naïve and incorrect. I went through all the gymnastics of guilt, justification and not caring anymore - and I went for it outside our marriage with men only.. When she realized the truth - and I thought she would be OK with me never going out with another woman, but only men- she said she could handle me being with a woman more because she could compete. The sad thing she didn't understand - She didn't need to compete - but while she tolerated the fact that I am bisexual, she did not accept that I would have sex with a man.
My wife was intrigued and turned on at the notion of me being with another man that she wanted to witness which she did watch Tom and I suck each other off. She was so turned on she later began to join us as we sucked him together and they sucked me together. It evolved with me becoming his bottom as she totally got off with us 69ing (me on top) as Tom fucked me in the ass. Tom and I have a lot of man sex together and my wife knows she cannot compete with his 9 1/2" cock, she doesn't need to nor does she have to. I still enjoy her pegging me with her strap-on and she enjoys dominating me with it but also knows I prefer his cock for a really good ass fucking. She gets my cock plenty and doesn't have a problem with me getting Tom's cock as often as I need it.
My wife has always said bi-play does nothing for her. We watch poem together and she watches girls doing each other. We have never watched guys. That being said when we play she enjoys using a vibrator on me while she sucks me. She knows I love getting fucked while she sucks me. Plus she loves when I go down on her after Alex and clean her. She always cums. When we had our one and only threesome I cleaned the other guys cum out of her and she came again. Overall I think in the heat of the moment she would except it. Who knows
My gf watches me getting it. She says it is hot seeing me get fucked. We've shared a dick a few times for blowjobs too, but I always end up with the load in my mouth, which i want.
Things do evolve! We just got together with our friend over the weekend. It's been months and I believe my wife was more excited about it than I was. I know she expects mutual blowjobs, but she also said that she was looking forward to seeing me taking his big cock in my ass again. First time I tried it, it was out of my own curiosity and more so, her desires to see me do it again. Not wanting to let anyone down, I followed through like a trooper and wouldn't want to let her down. This time I approached things with a vigor. It seemed the more lustfull I approached things, the more she liked it, which in turn fed my lust. Honestly, Im still surprised at how it excites her to watch and if watching is her only pleasure, Im happy to oblige her voyeuristic desire
Maybe you should introduce some ass play , and in my case , if you can let her have fun you can have fun , maybe show her some bbc porn. Worked on mine , she loved bbc and I sucked it after it was stuck in her
I stick my cock in my wife's ass once a week or so if I am particularly horny and hard. I do it because I love her and she loves getting her ass pounded. Apart from that she knows I have gone from "bi now, gay later" to "bi before, gay now". It's a big turn on for her that when I pound her ass I am thinking about men. I briefly fucked her pussy a few times last year. The last time I did was in December and I didn't enjoy it.