What would you do to keep sex alive in your relationship.

What would you do to keep your sex life active in a relationship?


Sexual role play with your partner (yes, no, why?)

Sexual role play outside relationship with same gender (yes,no,why?)

Sexual role play outside relationship with opposite gender (yes,no,why?)

Oral sex with partner (yes,no,why?)

Watching your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationships same gender (yes,no, why?)

Watch your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender (yes, no, why?)

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship same gender (yes, no, why?)

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender (yes, no, why?)

Watch your partner exhibit themselves to other’s (Yes, No, why?)

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the same gender (yes, no, why?)

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the opposite gender (yes, no, why?)

Exhibit yourself to other’s for your partner (Yes, no, why?)

Use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)

Watch someone of the same gender use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)

Watch someone of the opposite gender use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)

Have someone of the same gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you (yes, no, why?)

Have someone of the opposite gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you (yes, no, why?)

Explore your submissive sexual side with your partner (yes, no, why?)

Explore your dominant sexual side with your partner (yes, no, why?)

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (yes, no, why?)

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (yes, no, why?)

Watch your partner explore their dominant sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (yes, no, why?)

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (yes, no, why?)

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) (yes, no, why?)

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) (yes, no, why?)

 

Well.....yes and no . What was the question ?

 

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Sexual role play with your partner yes

Sexual role play outside relationship with same gender (es

Sexual role play outside relationship with opposite gender yes

Oral sex with partner yes

Watching your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationships same gender yes

Watch your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender yes

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship same gender yes

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender yes

Watch your partner exhibit themselves to other’s yes

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the same gender no

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the opposite gender yes

Exhibit yourself to other’s for your partner No

Use sex toys on your partner yes,

Watch someone of the same gender use sex toys on your partner yes

Watch someone of the opposite gender use sex toys on your partner yes

Have someone of the same gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you no

Have someone of the opposite gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you no,

Explore your submissive sexual side with your partner no,

Explore your dominant sexual side with your partner no,

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex yes

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex yes

Watch your partner explore their dominant sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex yes,

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex yes,

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) yes,

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) yes,

 

As someone who's been married a long time, it comes down to attraction, not do this and not that. Still find my husband so very, very attractive and when it gets boring, I remember the first thing I thought in my head the moment I first saw him "He's the most beautiful man I've ever seen." Then I whispered to my best friend who was standing next to me "I'm going to marry him." Every time I do that, I get turned on again. Sorry, you spent like 3 hours writing that question and I only read the first sentence. But to answer, I'd do whatever he wants me to do and he'd do whatever I want. Pretty simple.

 

It was not exactly a relationship but with my fwb, we did a few things

I taught her how to give BJ and she became VERY good at it in addition to loving it, to the point of reaching the deepthroat stage and throbbing, tingling from feeling my pleasure in her mouth.
(Getting hard writing about it)

Took turns being submissive to each other

Taught her to enjoy a vibrator

Experimented with ice on each other

Also on my own I tried with couples, being the third:
Giving a strip show and she was very handsy, something I wanted, and I titfucked her while he watched. She never had it done before and she loved it

I received oral while the husband watched

 

I felt bad about not answering your question as it was stated. i know that took some time to think of and write. So here goes:

Sexual role play with your partner: would I yes, have I no.

Sexual role play outside relationship with same gender: No, women don't turn me on.

Sexual role play outside relationship with opposite gender: No. We're monogmous but if I wasn't married, sure

Oral sex with partner: Oh yes.

Watching your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationships same gender: No

Watch your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender: No

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship same gender: No, but I once kissed a woman with my husband. Is that a threesome? Kinda, right.

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender: No

Watch your partner exhibit themselves to other’s: Um, we've had sex while others watched but never one without the other.

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the same gender: No

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the opposite gender: No

Exhibit yourself to other’s for your partner: Maybe but by other's it would have to be other women or in a very safe place (like flashing to a truck on the highway)

Use sex toys on your partner: Yes

Watch someone of the same gender use sex toys on your partner: No

Watch someone of the opposite gender use sex toys on your partner: No

Have someone of the same gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you: No

Have someone of the opposite gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you: Maybe, have to be pretty drunk though and my partner would have to edge me on. Likely, that's a no

Explore your submissive sexual side with your partner Yes,

Explore your dominant sexual side with your partner: Yes

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex NO

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex NO

Watch your partner explore their dominant sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex No,

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex No,

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law): I don't know that would take some reflection but likely no

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law): I don't know, that would take some reflection but a more likely yes

 

With my wife, I think it would take slipping testosterone into her coffee

 

Charlie, Respectfully, I mean no disrespect. This is 2023, modern day women are so in tune with what they need to keep a healthy sex life. My wife gets a testosterone pellet implant ever 4 months to keep my libido high. And I must say it really works.

 

Probably the biggest turn on for both of us is having sex outdoors or anywhere there is a chance we might get 'caught' Sex is more intense when we do that.

 

The biggest turn on for us is being with another couple in our bed. Watching each other have sex is by far the most exciting thing we do. We stay together and play together.

 

Never had another couple with us but she has had a few 3somes MFM

 

Many combinations of play can occur with another open minded couple. We enjoy playing with committed married couples. Less drama and safer. It hard to find a couple, but when you do, It’s awesome.

 

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Standing up? lol

 

I’ve been married forever to a somewhat jealous woman, so there will be zero play outside of our relationship with either gender. However, my wife has always known that it really turned me on role-playing of her with other men, or women for that matter. That role-playing with her led us to experience several MFM threesomes, and her one night stand with a bisexual married acquaintance of hers.

 

My answer is what haven't we done over the years to keep our sex life active. Of the questions here this is what we have done. There has been other sex fun we have had outside if these questions too.

Sexual role play with your partner? Yes, in several different roles like an OBGYN, Fireman, Nurse, and others.

Oral sex with partner? OMG Yes, because neither of us could get enough to eat.

Watch your partner exhibit themselves to other’s? Yes, she has flashed her tits and went braless in tight tees many times.

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the opposite gender? Yes, she fucked a former BF just to see if she made the right choice in marrying me. I, for my own pleasure have fucked many other women with her encouragement after she had to stop having sex.

Exhibit yourself to other’s for your partner? Yes both ways. We've had sex in public right in front of unsuspecting people. We've also ended up fucking out in the open where we could have been seen.

Use sex toys on your partner? Holy shit Yes. Vibrators, dildoes, prostate massagers, and silicone pussies.

Explore your submissive sexual side with your partner? Yes, she has actually ripped my shirt off and pinned me down to get to me to fuck her. I just let her do it. That's how one of our kids got started. Many other times she forced herself on me while I laid there and took it.

Explore your dominant sexual side with your partner? Yes, I've thrown her on the bed, pushed her against a wall and fucked her standing up, or forced her over a chair, counter, table etc. and had my way with her many times. She does have a fear of restraint so we've never done that.

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex? Yes even if it violated the law. But she never followed through with same sex activities and neither have I.

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex Yes even if it violates some law. Ever been to a massage parlor or hire an escort? Want to know if a former flame fucks better?

 

Sexual role play with your partner (yes, no, why?) Yes. To learn more of what turns each other on.

Sexual role play outside relationship with same gender (yes,no,why?) Yes. Would try it to see if it worked for us as you don't know until you try.

Sexual role play outside relationship with opposite gender (yes,no,why?) Yes. We have played outside our relationship with others and enjoyed is so this would be an extension to that.

Oral sex with partner (yes,no,why?)
Yes. Love the taste of her pussy.
Watching your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationships same gender (yes,no, why?) Yes. She has said she would like to try with another woman. So what's not to like for me.

Watch your partner preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender (yes, no, why?) Yes. I have watched this happen and was a massive turn on for me.

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship same gender (yes, no, why?) Yes. Wife has said she would like to watch me do this. I'm nervous but will try it once and a lot more if we both enjoy it.

Preform oral sex on someone else outside of your relationship opposite gender (yes, no, why?) Yes. Love the taste of women's pussy. Wife would like to watch me licking another woman.

Watch your partner exhibit themselves to other’s (Yes, No, why?) Yes. It's a big turn on for me for other men to see her naked. We have been on nudist beaches and she has walked through a usy city centre at night with a see through to and no bra, lots of men saw her tits it was great.

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the same gender (yes, no, why?) Yes. I would be very nervous and he would have to go slow with entry of lube. Wife would like to watch. As I said earlier I will try anything once.

Have penetrative sex with someone outside of your relationship of the opposite gender (yes, no, why?) Yes. This is slightly harder. I have told my wife I would only do it with her permission. She has said she would like to watch but I would leave up to her who with and when.

Exhibit yourself to other’s for your partner (Yes, no, why?) Yes. Love to walk round naked and would love my wife to tell me to show myself to whoever she picks.

Use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)Yes. We have done it and it gives us both pleasure.

Watch someone of the same gender use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)Yes. If we can have sex with the opposite sex why not use toys as well.

Watch someone of the opposite gender use sex toys on your partner (yes, no, why?)Yes. See previous answer.

Have someone of the same gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you (yes, no, why?)Yes.As above.

Have someone of the opposite gender outside of your relationship use sex toys on you (yes, no, why?)Yes. As above.

Explore your submissive sexual side with your partner (yes, no, why?)Yes. I like her to be the dominant partner but if she wants to be submissive sometimes why not.

Explore your dominant sexual side with your partner (yes, no, why?)Yes. I prefer being submissive but will do it to please my wife.

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (yes, no, why?)Yes. She will allow another guy to be dominant with her to show how submissive I am.

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (yes, no, why?) Yes. As above.

Watch your partner explore their dominant sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (yes, no, why?) Yes. If she dominates me why not let her dominate others.

Watch your partner explore their submissive sexual side outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (yes, no, why?)Yes. As above.

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the same sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) (yes, no, why?)Yes. We would be open with each other. I would try most things but if I was really against it why should I deny her the opportunity to enjoy the pleasure.

If your partner had a kink, fetish, fantasy that you didn’t want to be a part of would you be fine with them participating outside of your relationship with someone of the opposite sex (assuming it wasn’t against the law) (yes, no, why?) Yes.As above.

 

My wife and I have been married 15 years now (together 17 years). I think it's only natural for sex to get stale, and even drop off after you've been together with someone for a long time.

My wife and I have always been open-minded, nonjudgmental, and pretty kinky. We enjoy letting our "freak flags" fly.

Our love/sex life has never really been "vanilla" per say. Some of the things we've experimented with and found we enjoy a LOT are; my Feminine/SISSY side, ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover), Golden Showers (I love receiving), Male Chastity (she loves being dominant and in charge, while I'm definitely more submissive), Cuckold/HotWife (she's had a steady boyfriend for the last 6 years), and Pegging (she absolutely loves the role reversal and power exchange, and so do I).

I know a lot of people would probably say our kinks and fetishes are "abnormal", but to us the things listed above are NORMAL for us as a married couple, and that's all that REALLY matters.