What would be the best way to make a woman orgasm when you are having anal sex?

Hi! My partner and I are new to the anal sex world and are wondering on how to make me orgasm with either clitoral stimulation or a toy in my vagina while he is in my ass. We were hoping to make me orgasm so it would enhance the whole anal sex orgasm too. Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you so much!

 

Not an expert. I have reached around and rub her clit, use a dildo in her. Simulating dp or fingering her. My wife’s biggest orgasm from anal was 4 of my fingers in her pussy and me pounding her ass. Best night ever!!!!

 

I have had a lot of opportunities to practice this, and I can give you a couple of really important pieces of advice. Well, that work great for my wife and I anyway

#1: Basically the more she is turned on, the better the results are going to be when you go for it.

#2: Lubricate. We use coconut oil (watch out it can corrode condoms. A problem we don't have), but there are plenty of options to try. Don't be stingy, get your whole Wang slick right down to your balls, and drench her back door with it.

#3: We find that a gentle loosening excersize just before we try to squeeze it in there really helps to make it slide in easy. I just love to go down on my girl and get a very gentle finger or two in there for a bit. So hot. It also leads into my last tip...

#4: Make sure that she also has some loop inside her butt a little bit. Many time we have been thwarted because the outside was slick, and just inside it was very (clean and) dry. That stops the tugboat dead.



And just go slow until she knows how hard you can pound her

 

Get some of those "lube shooters" to get lube inside her anus. They look much like a hypodermic needle but without a needle. The end is rounded to allow easy insertion. They're about the diameter of a "Sharpie" marker. You fill it with lube, lubricate the outside of it, insert it into her anus about 1 inch to 1 1/2 inches, and push the plunger when it's inside her butt. They get the lube inside her - or the guy if she's inserting something in the guy. Then insert a finger in her to massage & relax her anal muscle with even more lube. That ought to make things much slicker for an easier penetration.

 

We have a vibrating cock ring for dp ... Works awesome

 

My first wife would play with her clit while I was in her ass and had intense orgasms. Each woman is different but my ex was made for anal sex.

 

Exactly this!!

 

Find out what works.....try different things. communication!

 

My wife uses her trusty Wahl vibrator on her clit while I am in her ass.
Yes to the coconut oil. It's a great and inexpensive lube.

 

Thank you so much for all these wonderful tips!!! They all sound great and I know we will be trying them all as we begin our new adventure in the anal sex world!!!!!

 

Her on her back with me standing in front, her legs in the air slowly fucking her ass while a curved vibrator rubs her g-spot.

 

Rubbing the clit is a good way but also do experiment maybe you'll find something that really gets it going.

 

I believe it mostly depends on the body structure of those involved but I’ve personally had success when I’m in the woman’s ass missionary while she (or me) rubs her clit. More specifically, I like standing up while she’s laid across a bed or table and I’m pinning her legs back via the knee joint and going to town deep in her ass. Maybe it helps that my dick curves up but when I’m at the right angle, it never fails making the woman cum. Every woman I’ve had the pleasure of anal fucking more than once has came that way with me. Being lubed up properly helps a lot too

 

Thank you so much for the advice and tips! Keep them coming as we would love to try them all!!!!

 

I personally haven’t used toys while doing anal, but I like when he’s very dominant so when he reaches around plays with me or even fingers me it’s a very big turn on. You’ll need to try different ways till you guys find your own!

 

I find that lots of dirty talk during anal sex can be enough to bring me to orgasm.
I have a male 'friend' who my hubby likes to imagine me being with, especially when we do anal. This leads to lots of dirty talk and fantasising about my other man as hubby fucks me.
If he thinks I've been messaging him a little too much, then he sees anal sex almost as a punishment for me and he gives it to me that little bit harder than normal. On these occasions, he constantly tells me how 'naughty' and 'slutty' I've been with my friend.
I don't orgasm every time during anal but dirty talk has added that little bit extra many times for me.

 

I have to agree. My mind is a huge part of my feelings before and during sex. Lots of foreplay and dirty talk really get me going. MANY times her naughty talk makes me explode. The most common is when we first start intercourse. I can be 20 minutes or more away from an orgasm due to just starting. Under 30 seconds and all of a sudden she'll start shaking, and say "OMG I'm going to squirt all over your cock and balls baby!!", those words, combined with knowing that hot wet feeling that comes with them, sends a rush of tingles to my lower extremities, and within seconds I'm exploding as she's having an orgasm! I'm always apologizing because it ended things so fast lol. But that's what round two is for a little later. The mind is a powerful thing.

 

100% agree on the mind !!! Counselors say it's the biggest, most important sex organ on the body - and I believe it. If anyone can get really hot & bothered by something they read, see, or hear - that's the MIND at work!!
Get the mind turned on and you're halfway there.

 

Write her a check for 5,000 bucks.