Hi everyone just a question wondering what you ladies like sexually. I’m trying to get more spice in the bedroom and need ideas
The best way to approach this is to talk to your partner . You could get 100s of ideas from posters but they would be stabbing in the dark as they would not know your own boundaries nor your partners . If you havnt establish boundaries already then this needs to be discussed with your partner as well before hand if you are departing from vanilla sex . Communication is key here
We can classify this right next to 'what do women want' as another question for the ages. Every woman is different and once you figure it out, it changes anyway... Try a new toy, couples porn, new lube, erotic massage, new positions, or my favorite, we'll flip to see who gets to cum from oral first...... It's probably best to have a light discussion on it, especially if one is not as adventurous. Not everything needs to be so damn serious, have fun.
The Captain is 100% correct. There is no "one-shop" answer to this. Every woman is different, just as every dude is different. It begins and ends with what she tells you when you talk to het about it. ** NOTE** the timing of when you talk about it is KEY. Just bringing it up on an average day is not going to work, or unlikely to. Bring it up on a weekend evening. After a couple drinks, she is in a good mood...and you are already getting amorous... that is when to bring it up. But be careful. Too many women have a tendency to look into it too much, thinking there is a reason why... like "oh you are bored with what we do?" It's just a fact. Women do this. So be easy with it, perhaps beginning the conversation with an assurance you like what you do. This can be a tricky area depending on the gal.
variety!! I know that is why you started the topic--- but honestly a bit of a different position, different order of events.......
My wife's wants have changed over the years. At first it was just sex (regular and oral). Then it became very light bondage and anal. Now it's bondage with some sexual pain, testing limits, completely submissive/dominated. One thing has remained the same over the years though....open communication about what she wants and desires.
