Are you turned on equally by both sexes? I can honestly say I am far more attracted to women but there are things that men can do to get my attention especially sexually.
With women ALL kinds of stuff turns me on about them. With dudes it all about him having a nice arse, preferably a big cock and most of all I love watching gay porn were the guy is taking a pounding from behind a really moaning like a bitch like he he can barely take it! Dudes that sounds really manly in their moans don't do it for me.
About 98% women - or, currently, one woman, although she's been in hospital for a long time) - looking back over the years to mid-high school, I've spent 363 days/year with women or between women and two days/year with guys.
Intelligence or able to discuss interesting things turns me on I also love people with good music taste. I'm more inclined to be turned on by women than men. And I'm more aesthetically interested in women.
One thing that turns me on is feeling the excitment building up in his cock as he gets close to climax. When he starts moaning and jerking as he cums in my mouth is a super turn on i carefully suck every drop and swallow with pleasure.
Intelligence, humor, kindness, confidence, thick muscles and a scruffy beard. Women can be very aesthetically pleasing but they don’t turn me on
Scruffy beard? And here I've been looking @ all these ways to get mine to play nice, look neater, etc. Different dressings, combs, etc. I have what they used to call a "foo", not sure what they're called now. Getting some length to it, and dying it to match my dark brown hair. (It has gone almost White!). My true beard color, before White, was Red. lol Figured if I'm gonna grow it I'm gonna color it too. Somehow it surprised me to know gals like scruffy beards. Guess I've listed to my elder women too much...