To answer the original question. I’m having sex too! My wife and I enjoy sex with other couples often. We play together and stay together with them. We absolutely love watching each other having sex. It’s our kink. We make plenty of eye contact with each other. We touch each other. If we happen to be in a separate room, my wife will moan when she is getting a good fucking so I know she is OK and enjoying herself. Whoever finishes first will watch the other. It’s all good.
I did that same thing once while watching my wife getting fucked by one of her lovers. It was actually a pretty amazing feeling to be honest.
While joining them seems like an "obvious " choice for some, for others that's not always an option. As a cuckold, I've never had a full-blown threesome with my wife and her boyfriend, in fact I only "joined" them once in the 6 years they've been together. While they were on the bed, I sat in a chair and slowly stroked myself. Watching them kiss, make out and her sucking his dick had me hard as a rock. Seeing her suck his massive dick turned me on more than anything else ever has. While I'd gladly share his big dick with her (and possibly bottom for him as well), that'll probably never happen because he claims to be "straight", even though my wife and I know he's hooked up with a mutual gay friend of theirs several times
I hear the mall is having a sale on lawnmowers. Great selection so it should take some time to decide .
They nusr they must love you watching, hard but unable to do anything but watch him fucking your wife.
That really depends on your relationship. If it is a cuckold relationship then you do, or don't do what she tells you. If it is a hotwife relationship, the possibilities are endless. I personally like "edging", because I always want to "reclaim" her afterwards. But that is only if they are nearby. If she is out with a guy I generally just watch a movie or something to try to take my mind off it until she gets home...then its game on!
So I take it that your wife is open about telling you she is going out with someone else? because how would you know what she was doing otherwise! Sloppy seconds are great but you are stretching things with your "reclaim" likes as surely it would be much better to indulge as a MFM. This is only my opinion and I don't want to be to critical about something I also enjoy. As I have mentioned before there is nothing so erotic as being involved in a male/female/male, so you are missing out on being involved together.
With my first wife, I never came home and caught her in bed with another man - it was always a woman I'd catch her with. Most of the time, I'd walk in, see what they're doing, excuse myself and leave; sometimes I'd stay for a moment and watch them; sometimes they'd notice me and I'd be invited to join them but I never asked her to be involved when it was her and another woman; this was her time and moment to explore her bisexuality the way she wanted to. Later and when a girl she fell deeply in love with became a part of our family, it wasn't anything unusual for me to come home and the two of them are all wrapped up in each other or, sometimes, I'd come home and find the bedroom door locked! If I were allowed in the room, I'd be invited to get naked and join them, which was always fun.
I have recorded her with six different guys and the only thing I regret is not having recorded her with the other four guys I was present. I would have liked her to record herself with the (four or five) other guys I was not present. When I am present I usually let him have his way with her for a time, then I take control and do her and then we repeat until we are too tired. This has worked for her and me. We watch her pictures and videos later and it always gets our blood boiling. She also enjoys her solo flings because the guys tend to be more energetic and bold when the husband is not present believing she is cheating.
It’s great to have this kind of relationship. My wife and I talk about it all the time and each time is different. All is good if you are both into it.
10 guys? That’s quite a few, but over how many years? I’d love my wife to have two or three spread out overtime, maybe even having a MMFM with me involved, either participating or just watching her with two other guys.
with my first wife it was strictly a hot wife situation. We had talked about having MFMs and she liked the idea. unfortunately the young stud that she found was not into MFMs being watched. So I settled for her having a six month affair with him, and “reclaiming” her when she returned home, or I returned from being on a road trip. The fresh cream pies and sloppy seconds when she got home were incredible. With my current wife, it was always MFMs. She said that I had to be there with her and him. Although I encouraged her to go solo, she said no way…… I had to be there participating. No problem! But she was absolutely against me taking any video or pictures. DAMN! I could sure use them now! She’s only been with our friend a few times since we’ve been together, and I wish she had been with other men, but she was not into the one night stand stuff, which is fine with me. One frequent MFM trusted partner would’ve been fine with me….. for years!
I absolutely know when she has a date. One of the few rules we have is that all of her dates must be agreed on beforehand. There are a few reasons for this. 1. Security...so I know where she is at in case of an emergency. 2. Our agreed upon motto is that as long as it is mutually agreeable it is not cheating. If done without an agreement, it is cheating. That is just us. 3. One of my biggest turn-ons is to help her get ready for her date. Helping her bath, helping her to buy and pick out her clothes/lingerie for her date, helping her dress, even buying condoms for her. She knows I like to watch, too, so sometimes I watch, and other times they do turn into an MFM depending on the situation and her mood. Ultimately, it is up to her....however, I always have the right to say no and she is totally agreeable to that. Everyone has their own thoughts and rules about this type of lifestyle. It works well for us. I'm not that interested in having other women, but she loves to have other cocks now and then and release her inner slut.
It's so hard trying to explain to other people why I am into this with my wife. You said everything I want to say, but some people will never understand
10 guys spread over 5 years. The first two years there was more action. After that, she reduced the rate.
My wife and I always played together even if the other guy didn't want contact with me. Many times they changed their min, in the heat of the moment.