Married 23 years, happily, kids all grown and out of the house, we’ve had good sex and okay sex, and good sex throughout the years. We know where we are in life and where we are with our bodies. Over the years we have become the typical sexually imbalanced couple. I am multiorgasmic and with that said once I have my many orgasms, I am good to go for week at a time up till almost 2 months. Then I get really randy (crazy sexually). My husband takes full advantage of this too. He gets to do pretty much anything he wants with me and I am soooooo okay with it as long as it includes some serious intercourse romping. We’ve taken up towards two full days (parts of three days) to complete these amazing sex acts. So all is wonderful in the world of me and so goes the same for my husband during this time of the year (6 times total on average). When put like that it sort of sucks. 6 times a year. But at least they last 2-3 days. But still 6??? Well of course he would like it to be every fricken day – lol, opps is fricken okay to say here? Even if we could manage every single day, my body couldn’t. I can barely walk after our 2 day rendezvous. It took us years and years to discover the methods that bring the most bang for the buck. In the end, mine is simple. I already explained it. My husband’s is not. The man is insatiable. For crying out loud we’ve been married 23 years, we are in our 40s. Surely he has gotten enough by now… lol. So we experimented on what brings us the most pleasure in the most effective and efficient way. Though we both do like variety, straight up intercourse works for me, dp adds a LOT but is not necessary for me to multiorgasm. Dual on him works wonders as well, oral & anal play. We discovered anal play, toys, and then more, along with ejaculation rocks his world the most intensely. Also he is multiorgasm when anal comes into play. How odd we thought, but after researching it, it makes sense. So over time we figured out to do the 2 month deal with me the way I like it (but still with all his play on/with me) and in the interim he plays for me. I love to watch, encourage, of course touch, feel, explore occasionally. It’s sort of like reality live t.v. in person. I can sit back and take in the channel or I can have a hands on approach. Either way I encourage, encourage, and encourage my husband. I even go as far as writing instructions for him or making requests of him, things I’d like to see and watch. It’s gets pretty crazy at times, I have a creative mind . So what to do over time in a long relationship - Find what works for the both of you and don’t be surprised to find out that you may just like what the other person has to say or wants to do. Find a way to make it fit in your lives and schedules. Men can do quickies and it doesn’t always have to be in a vagina. There are a lot of options. And no I wouldn’t suggest the vacuum cleaner or a bed post– lol, I read about both of those. Oooouuuuuch! Be open, free, and always enjoy one another. Blessings to you all and thanks for listening.
