What qualities are important to you in a significant other?

Compassion
Honesty
Individuality
Intelligence
Respect
Responsibility
Sense of humor

I will quote myself from another thread of a similar interest:

 

At this point I would have to say breathing and a heartbeat.

 

Men and women are not equal, nor should they be considered as such. Men are better at some things, while women are better at others. But in any healthy relationship, the female holds the submissive role, while the male holds the dominant.

Feminists, who strive to be the equals of men in all regards, are usually cold and bitter people.

 

lol,
how did i know you would say that

 

That last sentence is a VERY BROAD generalisation. For me personally I know I'll be the one at home raising the kids when they are young, I love to cook and clean, etc.- and I'm glad Ill be home doing that stuff. However, what about the guys that like to stay home instead and take care of the house and the kids and the women that like to be the main bread winner per say? Who is to say that since that works for those individual people there is something wrong with it?

Of course men and women in general have different strengths but that is not to say that they are not equal and cannot work in a partnership. If two individuals both wanna pursue careers and also BOTH take care of things around the house... the kids, cooking, etc.- that IS an equal situation and there are plenty of couples that do that... and no, those females arent all feminists and they arent all bitter.

 

I like a girl who's really into me. And someone who can stand the constant amount of shit I'll probably end up putting her through.

 

I like woman who gathers nuts and berries while i go out hunting

 

ive been awake for waaay too long. i almost fell on the floor laughing.

 

honnesty openess generosity caring understanding compassionate passionate loving they have to be real.. flaws are just fine aslong as theyre open about having flaws easy to talk to..but at the same time i agree that sometmes its noce to just be with them without feeling the need to talk....spontanius..flexible....someone who can handle it when life throws them a curve ball....someone whos strengths ballance my weaknesses & whos weaknesses are ballanced by my strengths

 

Good answer!!!

 

I like a woman with less facial hair than ol'hippie.

 

Picky!

 

hey, if she cant afford a razor, maybe I can make an exception, but that is the only way.

 

Masculinity can easily be submissive if done right.

Its not about dominate or submissive. While feminine and masculine may balance each other out, if one is too dominate over another individual, the submissive individual becomes a door mat. When one allows another to walk all over them, the relationship is no longer balanced.

Why should men and women not be equal, are both not human. Poke any human being and that human being will indeed bleed red.


You say all feminists are cold and bitter people, how many feminists do you personally know? Every person experiences coldness and bitterness, which without experiencing, we would never know warmth and brightness

Remember, a man of quality does not fear a woman seeking equality. A chauvinist is equivalent to a feminize.

 

Trust.

 

why in the world do people keep bringing back my old threads? that pisses me off for some reason...

mainly cause i dont like to be reminded of stuff i wrote in the past.

 

Ive not a clue what I'm looking for or whats important to me


Fuck, thats gotta say something.

 

Not me. i like it when my magnum opusses get brought back from the dead.

 

Same here.. That would be one of the more important ones to me.