Hi:3 We've been dating for several years, but never had sex. We tried a petting, mostly easy but a few times it was more intimate. I'm sure that I am definitively ready but I do not know how to offer it my beloved. For so many years, we have never talked about that so I can not guess what she really thinks about it. I've thought all the details but I can not figure out how to approach to this topic. and what i have to say firstly? I really want to say something special she will remember*like a part of our faery, wonderful first time. Please help me to solve this little problem. ^^
Every human who has ever lived and who has had sex, has had a first time. And probably most are as nervous and unsure as yourself. Don't stress about it. Don't try and create something false. Just let nature/hormones take their course and enjoy what happens. It's usually a lot easier after that!