Exactly. I end up chasing it with vodka or tequila or something by that point and the world starts to seem a lot better if I drink more of something else.
Small amounts of alcohol can increase sexual response. More than a few, and I mean like 2... decrease sexual responsiveness. People still often think of it as an aphrodisiac, because it's disinhibiting. Drinking too much doesn't make you any smoother though. I've seen lots of those people. Get smashed and then try to get their swag on. Sloppy, get turned down like 30 times, then meet someone drunk and desperate enough to take them up on it.
I wish I could link the Dead Kennedy's Too Drunk to Fuck, vid. It definitely applies. Sometimes you're just not going to fuck no matter how horny you are or want to because of the drink.
definitely the day/night of drinking... i get really happy and sociable and touchy feely. the next day i feel like an ass