what makes a man sexy?

This seems to change for me over time. It used to be I was only interested in a mans cock and I held a notion of the size and shape of cock I was attracted to. As things progressed a nice ass would get my attention also. Primarily I have been with men around my age and there have been some I would consider handsome.
This week I had been chatting with a young man who is 30 online and he was interested in meeting me, I wasn’t sure I wanted to because of a preconceived notion that of what he would be like. But I was horny as it had been three or four days since I had cum so I gave into my lust and met him. He is a nice looking Hispanic guy with a smooth body and nice polite demeanor. I’m not sure what I expected but this wasn’t it. He was very personable and matter of fact. I found myself to be very attracted to him.
as it turned out we had a great time that I hope to repeat, he gave me the best blowjob I think I have received to date, he is a master at it.
It did not take long before I emptied my balls into his talented mouth. I could see his throat repeatedly swallowing my cum. After which he commented what a mouthful it was with a big smile. Well now I was hooked, his attitude and demeanor surpassed his physical appearance making him even more attractive to me.
So many times I have found myself being attacked to both men and women by their attitude and demeanor far more than their appearance.

 

For me, a great friendly personality, handsome face, muscular arms, good hygiene, and is a top.

 

Confidence and Attitude.

 

Happiness.

 

For me it is honesty and courage.

Without honesty, any kind of connection you make with a man is worthless. If he can't be honest with you, he can't be trusted. I actually have a very sensitive Bullshit Detector. It goes "Beep, Beep, BEEP-BEEP-BEEEEEEEEP!" at the first sign that someone is trying to bullshit me. Nobody can fool me.

Courage is most important to me. A coward is never going to be there when you need him, a fake is always going to be a flake. Cowards sneak behind your back and when it is not working they pretend it is, simply because pretending is easier. A brave man will win my attention every time, and sometimes even my heart.

 

I m older and love to find a old outdoors openminded top take charge guy for outdoor even boating adventures. I do as I'm told! Lol

 

"ALL HANDS ON DICK!"

 

Yes Sir!

 

How about a new addition to the sports world (for gay/bi guys): the "DICK-lathon"!!!!!

 

I keep looking at this question and... I don't know how to answer it and probably because I don't think about guys in such terms; he's either okay or he isn't. Yes, indeed, I find dicks attractive in both form and function but I can't honestly say that I can look at a guy and see something "sexy" about him but I'd backpedal and say that such a distinction is eye of the beholder stuff. As I'm typing this, I'm rummaging around in my memories of my gay boyfriend and asking if he was sexy and I can't say that he was - but he was sensual in his feminine behaviors, which isn't the same as being sexy.

I don't know. Maybe I need to do some more thinking about this because I could have just missed sexy in men...