What is your best masturbation fantasy?

Just wondering since at my age it becomes not so difficult to get hard but to ejaculate. Unless I’m very aroused it just won’t go off. It seems to get to that point where you know it won’t be long before you do but I just get stuck there and lose interest. Is this a problem for anyone else?
My go to is a threesome my wife and I had almost 30 years ago, I can still see her orgasming on the guy and him coming in her but that has fizzled.

 

Have you tried using a toy or two to enhance your masturbation? Try using a imitation vagina such as a fleshlight or prostate stimulation with an anal toy. You might also try using a different scenario or fetish for your stimulation. The internet is filled with every imaginable sexual situation from professionals fucking with 10" cocks to amateurs having threesomes or cuckolding and sharing. It might be you need to lay off masturbation for a few days maybe a week or so. Give your mind and body some time to reload.

 

Ah, the "permanent spank bank." I actually have quite a few thoughts I go to regularly, and like your particular favorite, most of mine are actual events in my life from decades ago. My best and favorite masturbatory memories all involve one girlfriend from age 17, and my first wife whom I haven't seen or spoken to in about the past 30 years.

You must be in your 50s or older, so the fact that you have no trouble getting hard is a good thing. I also have no difficulty getting or staying erect, but also like you, it does take me longer to ejaculate than it used to. Get your prostate checked, no later than your next regular physical examination.. It may be larger and more sensitive than it used to be, but that may be a warning sign, and it's the wrong kind of sensitivity for sexual purposes. That prostate discomfort and its pressure on your bladder increases slowly over years in a way you may not be consciously aware of, like hearing loss does, but it definitely may be making it more difficult for you to orgasm and ejaculate during masturbation.

Here's the challenge when it comes to the "permanent spank bank," those thoughts we return to over and over for masturbatory purposes. Men are generally hard-wired with their kinks and sexual orientation at a fairly early age, and we explore those activities fairly early in life. Women are more adaptable over time, and tend to discover or develop new sexual interests more easily than men do, say after age 30. Their 20s is also the only decade of life in which women masturbate with anywhere near the frequency of men. In other words, we men still jerk-off like 15 year olds when we're 60, but we're using very old memories, because we vigorously pursued new partners and new experiences so long ago.

My best recommendation is to give your sex life a jump-start with the Mrs. by talking about trying some things and exploring some unexplored fantasies, if the two of you can come up with any. Perhaps you'll find something new to put in your spank bank. Alternatively, simply change your expectations for masturbation (enjoy it but don't expect it to lead to ejaculation), or do it less often. Accept that your body is changing, and that whereas someone once might have been able to finish in 90 seconds with those great memories, it may now take 45 minutes or not happen at all before he's too sore to keep stroking. Have reasonable expectations, explore new role play or fantasy with your wife, and get that prostate checked by your MD.

 

Tripple penetration by black men on my white wife. Actually we discussed this last nite which took me over the top.

 

One of my favourite masturbation fantasies related to something my wife told me happened to her when she was a teenager (19). Her boss’s son was taking a piano grading (she thinks it was grade 3 if she remembers correctly) and wasn’t getting on with his piano teacher (mainly because he was an arrogant 16 year old ). Her boss asked her to help him as she had her grade 8 and had considered studying at a conservatoire.

She would visit her boss’s home and give the young man lessons but found him spoilt, arrogant and obnoxious. She continued because she was worried about letting her boss down and any impact that might have on her job.

They would sit side by side on a dual piano stool and soon he started putting his hand on her thigh and trying to slide his hand up her skirt. She would stop him and tell him off but he was very arrogant and just kept trying.

At one point when she was stopping him for the umpteenth time he said he would tell his father she was being nasty to him and she would lose her job. She believed him and panicked.

His next attempt met no resistance and he pushed his hand up her skirt until he reached her panties and pulled them aside before having a good feel of her pussy.

Every lesson after that involved him putting his hand up her skirt and feeling her pussy. He progressed to getting her to remove her panties to allow better access and fingering her.

On one occasion he undid her bra and pulled her top and bra up to see and feel her tits. All done with a threat of losing her job if she resisted.

ever since she told me about that I have had some great wanks thinking about it and fantasising about him fucking her.

He passed the grade and she left that company before she got roped into giving him more lessons. She still cannot believe she was stupid enough to give in to his threats but she was young and it was her first job.

 

Used to be my sister in law when I was with my ex, and that continued a few years after as I still saw the in laws after
Then it was bit all over the place after

 

My wife had lots of sex in college and a few episodes, with my permission, since we married. I think about those events or create other scenarios in which she is fucked by younger men.

 

Mine vary, usually about having sex with a woman I've met whom I'd like to have had sex with.